The acorn becomes an oak by means of automatic growth; no commitment is necessary. The kitten similarly becomes a cat on the basis of instinct. Nature and being are identical in creatures like them. But a man or woman becomes fully human only by his or her choices and his or her commitment to them.
ROLLO MAYCourage is necessary to make being and becoming possible.
More Rollo May Quotes
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Apathy adds up, in the long run, to cowardice.
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Creativity is not merely the innocent spontaneity of our youth and childhood; it must also be married to the passion of the adult human being, which is a passion to live beyond one’s death.
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The relationship between commitment and doubt is by no means an antagonistic one. Commitment is healthiest when it is not without doubt but in spite of doubt.
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I learned that healing and cure are active processes in which I myself needed to participate.
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Science, Nietzsche had warned, is becoming a factory, and the result will be ethical nihilism.
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Memory is not just the imprint of the past time upon us; it is the keeper of what is meaningful for our deepest hopes and fears.
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Recall how often in human history the saint and the rebel have be the same person. (p. 35)
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A dynamic struggle goes on within a person between what he or she consciously thinks on the one hand and, on the other, some insight, some perspective that is struggling to be born.
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The hallmark of courage in our age of conformity is the capacity to stand on one’s own convictions – not obstinately or defiantly
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One does not become fully human painlessly.
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The essence of being human is that, in the brief moment we exist on this spinning planet, we can love some persons and some things, in spite of the fact that time and death will ultimately claim us all.
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There can be no stronger proof of the impoverishment of our contemporary culture than the popular – though profoundly mistaken – definition of myth as falsehood.
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Communication leads to community, that is, to understanding, intimacy and mutual valuing.
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Many people suffer from the fear of finding oneself alone, and so they don’t find themselves at all.
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Freedom does not come automatically; it is achieved. And it is not gained in a single bound; it must be achieved each day.
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