Intimacy requires courage because risk is inescapable. We cannot know at the outset how the relationship will affect us. Like a chemical mixture, if one of us is changed, both of us will be. Will we grow in self-actualization, or will it destroy us?
ROLLO MAYFinding the center of strength within ourselves is in the long run the best contribution we can make to our fellow men. … One person with indigenous inner strength exercises a great calming effect on panic among people around him.
More Rollo May Quotes
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Many people suffer from the fear of finding oneself alone, and so they don’t find themselves at all.
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In order to be open to creativity, one must have the capacity for constructive use of solitude. One must overcome the fear of being alone.
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A myth is a way of making sense in a senseless world. Myths are narrative patterns that give significance to our existence.
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One central need in life is to fulfill its own potential.
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Violence arises not out of superfluity of power but out of powerlessness.
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Vanity and narcissism – the compulsive need to be admired and praised – undermine one’s courage, for one then fights on someone else’s conviction rather than one’s own.
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This is what makes heroism so important: it reflects our own sense of identity and from this our own heroism is molded.
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If you do not express your own original ideas, if you do not listen to your own being, you will have betrayed yourself.
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Courage is the capacity to meet the anxiety which arises as one achieves freedom. It is the willingness to differentiate, to move from the protecting realms of parental dependence to new levels of freedom and integration.
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It is an old and ironic habit of human beings to run faster when we have lost our way; and we grasp more fiercely at research, statistics, and technical aids in sex when we have lost the values and meaning of love.
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Ecstasy is the accurate term for the intensity of consciousness that occurs in the creative act.
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Beauty is the experience that gives us a sense of joy and a sense of peace simultaneously.
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The amazing thing about love is that it is the best way to get to know ourselves.
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Competitive individualism militates against the experience of community, and that lack of community is a centrally important factor in contemporaneous anxiety.
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There can be no stronger proof of the impoverishment of our contemporary culture than the popular – though profoundly mistaken – definition of myth as falsehood.
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