Fortunately, however, we no longer have to argue that self -love is not only necessary and good but that it also is a prerequisite for loving others.
ROLLO MAYTherapy isn’t curing somebody of something; it is a means of helping a person explore himself, his life, his consciousness. My purpose as a therapist is to find out what it means to be human.
More Rollo May Quotes
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Ecstasy is the accurate term for the intensity of consciousness that occurs in the creative act.
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Does not the possibility or the power to do something about the situation at hand confer on one the responsibility to do it?
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Life comes from physical survival; but the good life comes from what we care about.
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Intimacy requires courage because risk is inescapable. We cannot know at the outset how the relationship will affect us. Like a chemical mixture, if one of us is changed, both of us will be. Will we grow in self-actualization, or will it destroy us?
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So courage makes possible all the psychological virtues. Without courage other values wither away into mere facsimiles of virtue.
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The opposite of courage in our society is not cowardice, it is conformity.
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Communication leads to community, that is, to understanding, intimacy and mutual valuing.
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The amazing thing about love is that it is the best way to get to know ourselves.
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There is nobody who totally lacks the courage to change.
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Creativity arises out of the tension between spontaneity and limitations, the latter (like the river banks) forcing the spontaneity into the various forms which are essential to the work of art or poem.
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When you are completely absorbed or caught up in something, you become oblivious to things around you, or to the passage of time. It is this absorption in what you are doing that frees your unconscious and releases your creative imagination.
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Freedom does not come automatically; it is achieved. And it is not gained in a single bound; it must be achieved each day.
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It is an ironic habit of human beings to run faster when we have lost our way.
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What if imagination and art are not frosting at all, but the fountainhead of human experience?
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When we are dealing with human beings, no truth has reality by itself; it is always dependent upon the reality of the immediate relationship.
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