Hate is not the opposite of love; apathy is.
ROLLO MAYLove is generally confused with dependence; but in point of fact, you can love only in proportion to your capacity for independence.
More Rollo May Quotes
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Joy, rather than happiness, is the goal of life, for joy is the emotion which accompanies our fulfilling our natures as human beings. It is based on the experience of one’s identity as a being of worth and dignity.
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In my clinical experience, the greatest block to a person’s development is his having to take on a way of life which is not rooted in his own powers.
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Creativity is the encounter of the intensively conscious human being with his world.
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So courage makes possible all the psychological virtues. Without courage other values wither away into mere facsimiles of virtue.
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Courage is not the absence of despair; it is, rather, the capacity to move ahead in spite of despair.
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Science, Nietzsche had warned, is becoming a factory, and the result will be ethical nihilism.
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Humor is the healthy way of feeling “distance” between one’s self and the problem, a way of standing off and looking at one’s problem with perspective.
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The ultimate error is the refusal to look evil in the face.
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Suffering is nature’s way of indicating a mistaken attitude or way of behavior, and to the nonegocentric person every moment of suffering is the opportunity for growth. People should rejoice in suffering, strange as it sounds, for this is a sign of the availability of energy to transform their characters.
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Courage is necessary to make being and becoming possible.
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The first thing necessary for a constructive dealing with time is to learn to live in the reality of the present moment. For psychologically speaking, this present moment is all we have.
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There is no authentic inner freedom that does not, sooner or later, also affect and change human history.
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A myth is a way of making sense in a senseless world. Myths are narrative patterns that give significance to our existence.
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This is what our society needs – not new ideas and inventions; important as these are, and not geniuses and supermen, but persons who can be, that is, persons who have a center of strength within themselves.
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The opposite of courage in our society is not cowardice, it is conformity.
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