Many people suffer from the fear of finding oneself alone, and so they don’t find themselves at all.
ROLLO MAYWhat if imagination and art are not frosting at all, but the fountainhead of human experience?
More Rollo May Quotes
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Depression is the inability to construct a future.
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The amazing thing about love is that it is the best way to get to know ourselves.
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A mien which seems to say, “You are looking at somebody now.” For this inner sense of worth that comes with being in love does not seem to depend essentially on whether the love is returned or not.
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Every human being must have a point at which he stands against the culture, where he says, “This is me and the world be damned!” Leaders have always been the ones to stand against the society – Socrates, Christ, Freud, all the way down the line.
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Courage is necessary to make being and becoming possible.
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I learned that healing and cure are active processes in which I myself needed to participate.
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Therapy isn’t curing somebody of something; it is a means of helping a person explore himself, his life, his consciousness. My purpose as a therapist is to find out what it means to be human.
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It is an ironic habit of human beings to run faster when we have lost our way.
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Love is generally confused with dependence; but in point of fact, you can love only in proportion to your capacity for independence.
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So courage makes possible all the psychological virtues. Without courage other values wither away into mere facsimiles of virtue.
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If you do not express your own original ideas, if you do not listen to your own being, you will have betrayed yourself.
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The one thing we can be certain of is that if we let ourselves fully into the relationship for good or evil, we will not come out unaffected.
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Many people feel they are powerless to do anything effective with their lives. It takes courage to break out of the settled mold, but most find conformity more comfortable. This is why the opposite of courage in our society is not cowardice, it’s conformity.
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Vanity and narcissism – the compulsive need to be admired and praised – undermine one’s courage, for one then fights on someone else’s conviction rather than one’s own.
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Creativity is neither the product of neurosis nor simple talent, but an intense courageous encounter with the Gods.
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