When we are dealing with human beings, no truth has reality by itself; it is always dependent upon the reality of the immediate relationship.
ROLLO MAYPeople only change when it becomes too dangerous to stay the way they are.
More Rollo May Quotes
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One of the easiest ways to be irresponsible about power is to forget you have it.
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Deeds of violence in our society are performed largely by those trying to establish their self-esteem, to defend their self-image, and to demonstrate that they, too, are significant.
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Beauty is the experience that gives us a sense of joy and a sense of peace simultaneously.
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The amazing thing about love is that it is the best way to get to know ourselves.
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The first thing necessary for a constructive dealing with time is to learn to live in the reality of the present moment. For psychologically speaking, this present moment is all we have.
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Intimacy requires courage because risk is inescapable.
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Understanding and love require a wisdom that comes only with age.
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A myth is a way of making sense in a senseless world. Myths are narrative patterns that give significance to our existence.
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When people feel their insignificance as individual persons, they also suffer an undermining of their sense of human responsibility.
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It is an ironic habit of human beings to run faster when we have lost our way.
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Creativity is not merely the innocent spontaneity of our youth and childhood; it must also be married to the passion of the adult human being, which is a passion to live beyond one’s death.
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Creativity is the process of bringing something new into being. Creativity requires passion and commitment. It brings to our awareness what was previously hidden and points to new life. The experience is one of heightened consciousness: ecstasy.
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Freedom does not come automatically; it is achieved. And it is not gained in a single bound; it must be achieved each day.
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Anxiety is essential to the human condition. The confrontation with anxiety can relieve us from boredom, sharpen the sensitivity and assure the presence of tension that is necessary to preserve human existence.
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Therapy isn’t curing somebody of something; it is a means of helping a person explore himself, his life, his consciousness. My purpose as a therapist is to find out what it means to be human.
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