Love is generally confused with dependence; but in point of fact, you can love only in proportion to your capacity for independence.
ROLLO MAYPeople only change when it becomes too dangerous to stay the way they are.
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Artists love to immerse themselves in chaos in order to put it into form, just as God created form out of chaos in Genesis. Forever unsatisfied with the mundane, the apathetic, the conventional, they always push on to newer worlds.
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Courage is the capacity to meet the anxiety which arises as one achieves freedom. It is the willingness to differentiate, to move from the protecting realms of parental dependence to new levels of freedom and integration.
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People attain worth and dignity by the multitude of decisions they make from day to day.
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To love means to open ourselves to the negative as well as the positive – to grief, sorrow, and disappointment as well as to joy, fulfillment, and an intensity of consciousness we did not know was possible before
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Anxiety is essential to the human condition. The confrontation with anxiety can relieve us from boredom, sharpen the sensitivity and assure the presence of tension that is necessary to preserve human existence.
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When people feel their insignificance as individual persons, they also suffer an undermining of their sense of human responsibility.
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This is what makes heroism so important: it reflects our own sense of identity and from this our own heroism is molded.
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Intimacy requires courage because risk is inescapable.
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It is an old and ironic habit of human beings to run faster when we have lost our way; and we grasp more fiercely at research, statistics, and technical aids in sex when we have lost the values and meaning of love.
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In my clinical experience, the greatest block to a person’s development is his having to take on a way of life which is not rooted in his own powers.
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One of the easiest ways to be irresponsible about power is to forget you have it.
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Ecstasy is the accurate term for the intensity of consciousness that occurs in the creative act.
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Real freedom is the ability to pause between stimulus and response, and in that pause, choose.
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Good art wounds as well as delights. It must, because our defenses against the truth are wound so tightly around us. But as art chips away at our defenses, it also opens us to healing potentialities that transcend intellectual games and ego-preserving strategies.
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There is no authentic inner freedom that does not, sooner or later, also affect and change human history.
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