When people feel their insignificance as individual persons, they also suffer an undermining of their sense of human responsibility.
ROLLO MAYCourage is not a virtue of value among other personal values like love or fidelity. It is the foundation that underlies and gives reality to all other virtues and personal values. Without courage our love pales into mere dependency. Without courage our fidelity becomes conformism.
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Freedom is man’s capacity to take a hand in his own development. It is our capacity to mold ourselves.
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People attain worth and dignity by the multitude of decisions they make from day to day.
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Vanity and narcissism – the compulsive need to be admired and praised – undermine one’s courage, for one then fights on someone else’s conviction rather than one’s own.
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Love is generally confused with dependence; but in point of fact, you can love only in proportion to your capacity for independence.
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One of the easiest ways to be irresponsible about power is to forget you have it.
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Creativity arises out of the tension between spontaneity and limitations, the latter (like the river banks) forcing the spontaneity into the various forms which are essential to the work of art or poem.
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In my clinical experience, the greatest block to a person’s development is his having to take on a way of life which is not rooted in his own powers.
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Real freedom is the ability to pause between stimulus and response, and in that pause, choose.
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Fortunately, however, we no longer have to argue that self -love is not only necessary and good but that it also is a prerequisite for loving others.
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Apathy adds up, in the long run, to cowardice.
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A myth is a way of making sense in a senseless world. Myths are narrative patterns that give significance to our existence.
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There is an energy field between humans. And, when we reach out in passion, it is met with an answering passion and changes the relationship forever.
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People attain worth and dignity by the multitude of decisions they make from day by day. These decisions require courage.
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Competitive individualism militates against the experience of community, and that lack of community is a centrally important factor in contemporaneous anxiety.
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Deeds of violence in our society are performed largely by those trying to establish their self-esteem, to defend their self-image, and to demonstrate that they, too, are significant.
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