Deeds of violence in our society are performed largely by those trying to establish their self-esteem, to defend their self-image, and to demonstrate that they, too, are significant.
ROLLO MAYPeople attain worth and dignity by the multitude of decisions they make from day to day.
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It is well to remind ourselves that anxiety signifies a conflict, and so long as a conflict is going on, a constructive solution is possible.
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Understanding and love require a wisdom that comes only with age.
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Courage is required not only in a person’s occasional crucial decision for his own freedom, but in the little hour-to-hour decisions which place the bricks in the structure of his building of himself into a person who acts with freedom and responsibility.
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The essence of being human is that, in the brief moment we exist on this spinning planet, we can love some persons and some things, in spite of the fact that time and death will ultimately claim us all.
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One does not become fully human painlessly.
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Life comes from physical survival; but the good life comes from what we care about.
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Violence arises not out of superfluity of power but out of powerlessness.
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Every human being must have a point at which he stands against the culture, where he says, this is me and the damned world can go to hell.
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It is an old and ironic habit of human beings to run faster when we have lost our way; and we grasp more fiercely at research, statistics, and technical aids in sex when we have lost the values and meaning of love.
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Good art wounds as well as delights. It must, because our defenses against the truth are wound so tightly around us. But as art chips away at our defenses, it also opens us to healing potentialities that transcend intellectual games and ego-preserving strategies.
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In my clinical experience, the greatest block to a person’s development is his having to take on a way of life which is not rooted in his own powers.
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Many people suffer from the fear of finding oneself alone, and so they don’t find themselves at all.
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Freedom does not come automatically; it is achieved. And it is not gained in a single bound; it must be achieved each day.
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Ecstasy is the accurate term for the intensity of consciousness that occurs in the creative act.
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The word courage comes from the same stem as the French word Coeur, meaning “heart.” Thus just as one’s heart, by pumping blood to one’s arms, legs, and brain enables all the other physical organs to function.
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