It isn’t the things that are happening to us that cause us to suffer, it’s what we say to ourselves about the things that are happening. The truth you believe and cling to makes you unavailable to hear anything new.
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More Pema Chodron Quotes
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Feeling irritated, restless, afraid, and hopeless is a reminder to listen more carefully.
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Resisting what is happening is a major cause of suffering.
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Appreciate everything, even the ordinary. Especially the ordinary.
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Nothing ever goes away until it has taught us what we need to know. Even if we run a hundred miles an hour to the other side of the continent, we find the very same problem awaiting us when we arrive.
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As our kindness for ourselves grows, so does our kindness for other people.
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The future is completely open and we are writing it moment to moment.
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Each person’s life is like a mandala – a vast, limitless circle. We stand in the center of our own circle, and everything we see, hear and think forms the mandala of our life … everything that shows up in your mandala is a vehicle for your awakening.
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I can’t overestimate the importance of accepting ourselves exactly as we are right now, not as we wish we were or think we ought to be.
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It isn’t what happens to us that causes us to suffer; it’s what we say to ourselves about what happens.
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You are the sky. Everything else – it’s just the weather.
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If someone comes along and shoots an arrow into your heart, it’s fruitless to stand there and yell at the person. It would be much better to turn your attention to the fact that there’s an arrow in your heart.
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You build inner strength through embracing the totality of your experience, both the delightful parts and the difficult parts.
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Usually we think that brave people have no fear. The truth is that they are intimate with fear.
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Inner peace begins the moment you choose not to allow another person or event to control your emotions.
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Feelings like disappointment, embarrassment, irritation, resentment, anger, jealousy, and fear, instead of being bad news, are actually very clear moments that teach us where it is that we’re holding back.
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