Openness doesn’t come from resisting our fears but rather from getting to know them well.
PEMA CHODRONAnything we experience, no matter how challenging, can become an open pathway to awakening.
More Pema Chodron Quotes
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We have a choice. We can spend our whole life suffering because we can’t relax with how things really are, or we can relax and embrace the open-endedness of the human situation, which is fresh, unfixated, unbiased.
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In meditation, you learn how to get out of your own way long enough for there to be room for your wisdom to manifest.
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Since death is certain and the time of death is uncertain, what is the most important thing?
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Sticking with that uncertainty, getting the knack of relaxing in the midst of chaos, learning not to panic-this is the spiritual path.
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You build inner strength through embracing the totality of your experience, both the delightful parts and the difficult parts.
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So many of us start along the spiritual path because we are suffering. But you must realize that for real healing to occur, there must first be deep compassion for yourself, especially the parts of yourself you dislike or consider ugly.
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Don’t worry about achieving. Don’t worry about perfection. Just be there each moment as best you can.
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The essence of generosity is letting go. Pain is always a sign that we are holding on to something – usually ourselves.
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So war and peace start in the human heart. Whether that heart is open or whether that heart closes has global implications.
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Obstacles are our friends: they teach us where we’re stuck.
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The future is completely open and we are writing it moment to moment.
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The central question of a warrior’s training is not how we avoid uncertainty and fear but how we relate to discomfort.
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Never give up on yourself. Then you will never give up on others.
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Only to the extent that we expose ourselves over and over to annihilation can that which is indestructible in us be found.
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Be kinder to yourself. And then let your kindness flood the world.
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