If you follow your heart, you’re going to find that it is often extremely inconvenient.
PEMA CHODRONObstacles are our friends: they teach us where we’re stuck.
More Pema Chodron Quotes
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The greatest obstacle to connecting with our joy is resentment.
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It isn’t what happens to us that causes us to suffer; it’s what we say to ourselves about what happens.
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Since death is certain and the time of death is uncertain, what is the most important thing?
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So many of us start along the spiritual path because we are suffering. But you must realize that for real healing to occur, there must first be deep compassion for yourself, especially the parts of yourself you dislike or consider ugly.
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Treat yourself as your own beloved child.
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The truth you believe and cling to makes you unavailable to hear anything new.
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One of the deepest habitual patterns that we have is to feel that now is not enough.
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Anything we experience, no matter how challenging, can become an open pathway to awakening.
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We have a choice. We can spend our whole life suffering because we can’t relax with how things really are, or we can relax and embrace the open-endedness of the human situation, which is fresh, unfixated, unbiased.
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Let difficulty transform you. And it will. In my experience, we just need help in learning how not to run away.
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When we are willing to stay even a moment with uncomfortable energy, we gradually learn not to fear it.
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Feeling irritated, restless, afraid, and hopeless is a reminder to listen more carefully.
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Only to the extent that we expose ourselves over and over to annihilation can that which is indestructible in us be found.
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Inner peace begins the moment you choose not to allow another person or event to control your emotions.
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Never give up on yourself. Then you will never give up on others.
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