In my first few years of being in New York, I had a major identity crisis because I’d never stayed in one place for so long.
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I’m Japanese, and I’m also white American, and neither camp wants me in their camp.
MitskiMitski Whenever I’ve tried to ingratiate myself to an existing community, I tend to give too much, to become whatever it is they want me to be. It’s something I do automatically – I’ve learnt to immediately adapt.
MitskiMitski I have this thing about being acknowledged and accepted by institutions.
MitskiMitski I don’t think ‘bleak’ is a bad thing.
MitskiMitski Things seem to take so much longer for me to do. I have to say things 10 times instead of once. I have to knock on 10 different doors instead of two. For everything.
MitskiMitski I created this ‘ideal America.’ Finally I came to the U.S. and realised, ‘Oh, I don’t belong here, either.’
MitskiMitski All I want to do at karaoke is sing Mariah Carey.
MitskiMitski I have my privileges, but I do feel like at every turn there is such resistance.
MitskiMitski I think my whole identity is formed around not knowing where I’m from. It might even be that I find comfort in that confusion.
MitskiMitski When you’re doing something you’re not used to, you kind of realize that you’re still a kid: even though the whole world around you sees you as an adult and you’re expected to act like an adult, you still haven’t actually grown up.
MitskiMitski It’s very tempting, when somebody says they like this about you, to want to do that over and over.
MitskiMitski I would love for Rivers Cuomo to listen to my music and see what he thinks.
MitskiMitski I think my real influences are out of my control, which are the things that entered my brain when I was a kid growing up.
MitskiMitski I think music is supposed to be shared.
MitskiMitski Then you start to realise, ‘Oh, I’m bending a lot,’ and they’re just standing there existing, and I’m bending around them. But you can’t blame them: they don’t realise it; that’s just how they already existed. It’s hard.
MitskiMitski I could never enter that dream. That all-American white culture is something that is inherited instead of attained.
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