But as I’ve said, failure is a feeling long before it’s an actual result. And for me, it felt like that’s exactly what she was planting—a suggestion of failure long before I’d even tried to succeed.
MICHELLE OBAMAIt was possible, I knew, to live on two planes at once—to have one’s feet planted in reality but pointed in the direction of progress.
More Michelle Obama Quotes
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When you’re First Lady, America shows itself to you in its extremes.
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Focus on what you can control. Be a good person every day. Vote. Read. Treat one another kindly. Follow the law. Don’t tweet nasty stuff.
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I didn’t want them ever to believe that life began when the man of the house arrived home. We didn’t wait for Dad. It was his job now to catch up with us.
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For me, becoming isn’t about arriving somewhere or achieving a certain aim. I see it instead as forward motion, a means of evolving, a way to reach continuously toward a better self. The journey doesn’t end.
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I just wanted to achieve. Or maybe I didn’t want to be dismissed as incapable of achievement.
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The realities are that, you know, as a black man, you know, Barack can get shot going to the gas station, you know.
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Failure is a feeling long before it becomes an actual result. It’s vulnerability that breeds with self-doubt and then is escalated, often deliberately, by fear.
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The more popular you became, the more haters you acquired.
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And there’s grace in being willing to know and hear others. This, for me, is how we become.
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Failure is a feeling long before it becomes an actual result
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just do what works for you, because there will always be someone who thinks differently.
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I’ve smiled for photos with people who call my husband horrible names on national television, but still want a framed keepsake for their mantel.
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Life was teaching me that progress and change happen slowly. Not in two years, four years, or even a lifetime. We were planting seeds of change, the fruit of which we might never see. We had to be patient.
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I hate diversity workshops. Real change comes from having enough comfort to be really honest and say something very uncomfortable.
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You can’t make decisions based on fear and the possibility of what might happen.
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