Life was teaching me that progress and change happen slowly. Not in two years, four years, or even a lifetime. We were planting seeds of change, the fruit of which we might never see. We had to be patient.
MICHELLE OBAMAI hate diversity workshops. Real change comes from having enough comfort to be really honest and say something very uncomfortable.
More Michelle Obama Quotes
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Since stepping reluctantly into public life, I’ve been held up as the most powerful woman in the world and taken down as an angry black woman. I’ve wanted to ask my detractors which part of that phrase matters to them the most—is it angry or black or woman ?
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Hearing them, I realized that they weren’t at all smarter than the rest of us. They were simply emboldened, floating on an ancient tide of superiority, buoyed by the fact that history had never told them anything different.
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You don’t really know how attached you are until you move away, until you’ve experienced what it means to be dislodged, a cork floating on the ocean of another place.
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there’s no straight line between effort and reward.
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Changing the big picture takes time.. and the best things to do is focus on the things that we can make in our lives if we’re doing all that. That becomes the collage of real change
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Even if we didn’t know the context, we were instructed to remember that context existed. Everyone on earth, they’d tell us, was carrying around an unseen history, and that alone deserved some tolerance.
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Dominance, even the threat of it, is a form of dehumanization. It’s the ugliest kind of power.
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Good relationships feel good. They feel right. They don’t hurt.
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I just wanted to achieve. Or maybe I didn’t want to be dismissed as incapable of achievement.
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No one, I realized, was going to look out for me unless I pushed for it.
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Marriage, he told me early on, struck him as an unnecessary and overhyped convention.
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Now I think it’s one of the most useless questions an adult can ask a child – What do you want to be when you grow up? As if growing up is finite. As if at some point you become something and that’s the end.
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Don’t be afraid. Be focused. Be determined. Be hopeful. Be empowered.
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I didn’t want them ever to believe that life began when the man of the house arrived home. We didn’t wait for Dad. It was his job now to catch up with us.
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Your story is what you have, what you will always have. It is something to own.
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For me, becoming isn’t about arriving somewhere or achieving a certain aim. I see it instead as forward motion, a means of evolving, a way to reach continuously toward a better self. The journey doesn’t end.
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The choice, as he saw it, was this: You give up or you work for change. What’s better for us? Barack called to the people gathered in the room. Do we settle for the world as it is, or do we work for the world as it should be?
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They didn’t own a house. We were their investment, me and Craig. Everything went into us.
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My daughters are the heart of my heart and the center of my world.
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Everyone on Earth, they’d tell us, was carrying around an unseen history, and that alone deserved some tolerance.
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You’ve got to be twice as good to get half as far.
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We explain when someone is cruel or acts like a bully, you do not stoop to their level. Our motto is when they go low, you go high.
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I began to understand that his version of hope reached far beyond mine: It was one thing to get yourself out of a stick place, I realized. It was another thing entirely to try and get the place itself unstuck.
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I like the idea of being rigorous about friendship.
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Do we settle for the world as it is, or do we work for the world as it should be?
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In my blinding drive to excel, in my need to do things perfectly, I’d missed the signs and taken the wrong road.
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