I wanted Americans to understand that words matter—that the hateful language they heard coming from their TVs did not reflect the true spirit of our country and that we could vote against it.
MICHELLE OBAMALook how I’m managing, I wanted to say in those moments, to my audience of no one. Does everyone see that I’m pulling this off?
More Michelle Obama Quotes
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I was deeply, delightfully in love with a guy whose forceful intellect and ambition could possibly end up swallowing mine.
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Trump, with his loud and reckless innuendos, was putting my family’s safety at risk. And for this, I’d never forgive him.
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America, our moment is now, Barack said. Our moment is now.
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We should always have three friends in our lives-one who walks ahead who we look up to and follow; one who walks beside us, who is with us every step of our journey; and then, one who we reach back for and bring along after we’ve cleared the way.
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As a kid, you learn to measure long before you understand the size or value of anything. Eventually, if you’re lucky, you learn that you’ve been measuring all wrong.
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The easiest way to disregard a woman’s voice is to package her as a scold.
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You find ways to adapt. If you’re in it forever, there’s really no choice.
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Do we settle for the world as it is, or do we work for the world as it should be?
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Everyone on Earth, they’d tell us, was carrying around an unseen history, and that alone deserved some tolerance.
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And there’s grace in being willing to know and hear others. This, for me, is how we become.
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Time, as far as my father was concerned, was a gift you gave to other people.
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The realities are that, you know, as a black man, you know, Barack can get shot going to the gas station, you know.
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Do not bring people in your life who weigh you down. And trust your instincts, good relationships feel good. They feel right. They don’t hurt. They’re not painful. That’s not just with somebody you want to marry, but it’s with the friends that you choose. It’s with the people you surround yourselves with.
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failure is a feeling long before it’s an actual result.
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Kids will invest more, when they feel they’re being invested in.
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It was possible, I knew, to live on two planes at once—to have one’s feet planted in reality but pointed in the direction of progress.
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It’s easier to hold onto your own stereotypes and misconceptions, it makes you feel justified in your own ignorance. That’s America. So the challenge for us is, are we ready for change?
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It hurts to live after someone has died. It just does.
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I hate diversity workshops. Real change comes from having enough comfort to be really honest and say something very uncomfortable.
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I wasn’t going to let one person’s opinion dislodge everything I thought I knew about myself. Instead, I switched my method without changing my goal.
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Changing the big picture takes time.. and the best things to do is focus on the things that we can make in our lives if we’re doing all that. That becomes the collage of real change
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It felt perverse, how the world just carried on. How everyone was still here, except for my Suzanne.
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I look back on the discomfort of that moment now and recognize the more universal challenge of squaring who you are with where you come from and where you want to go.
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If you don’t get out there and define yourself, you’ll be quickly and inaccurately defined by others.
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Here’s a memory, which like most memories is imperfect and subjective—collected long ago like a beach pebble and slipped into the pocket of my mind.
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In my blinding drive to excel, in my need to do things perfectly, I’d missed the signs and taken the wrong road.
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