Now that I’m an adult, I realize that kids know at a very young age when they’re being devalued, when adults aren’t invested enough to help them learn. Their anger over it can manifest itself as unruliness. It’s hardly their fault. They aren’t bad kids. They’re just trying to survive bad circumstances.
MICHELLE OBAMAAt fifty-four, I am still in progress, and I hope that I always will be.
More Michelle Obama Quotes
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I’ve smiled for photos with people who call my husband horrible names on national television, but still want a framed keepsake for their mantel.
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Time, as far as my father was concerned, was a gift you gave to other people.
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People who are truly strong lift others up. People who are truly powerful bring others together.
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Even if we didn’t know the context, we were instructed to remember that context existed. Everyone on earth, they’d tell us, was carrying around an unseen history, and that alone deserved some tolerance.
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At fifty-four, I am still in progress, and I hope that I always will be.
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Your story is what you have, what you will always have. It is something to own.
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The burden of assimilation is put largely on the shoulders of minority students.
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Failure is a feeling long before it becomes an actual result
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His money went largely toward books, which to him were like sacred objects, providing ballast for his mind.
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It was possible, I knew, to live on two planes at once—to have one’s feet planted in reality but pointed in the direction of progress.
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I began to understand that his version of hope reached far beyond mine: It was one thing to get yourself out of a stuck place, I realized. It was another thing entirely to try and get the place itself unstuck.
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Friendships between women, as any woman will tell you, are built of a thousand small kindnesses, swapped back and forth and over again.
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In my blinding drive to excel, in my need to do things perfectly, I’d missed the signs and taken the wrong road.
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The arts are not just a nice thing to have or to do if there is free time or if one can afford it. Rather, paintings and poetry, music and fashion, design and dialogue, they all define who we are as a people and provide an account of our history for the next generation.
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I look back on the discomfort of that moment now and recognize the more universal challenge of squaring who you are with where you come from and where you want to go.
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I didn’t want them ever to believe that life began when the man of the house arrived home. We didn’t wait for Dad. It was his job now to catch up with us.
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This may be the fundamental problem with caring a lot about what others think: It can put you on the established path–the my-isn’t-that-impressive- path– and keep you there for a long time.
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The truth is, in order to get things like universal health care and a revamped education system, then someone is going to have to give up a piece of their pie so that someone else can have more.
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And there’s grace in being willing to know and hear others. This, for me, is how we become.
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The realities are that, you know, as a black man, you know, Barack can get shot going to the gas station, you know.
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You can’t make decisions based on fear and the possibility of what might happen.
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America, our moment is now, Barack said. Our moment is now.
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I’ve learned that it’s harder to hate up close.
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Look how I’m managing, I wanted to say in those moments, to my audience of no one. Does everyone see that I’m pulling this off?
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One of the lessons that I grew up with was to always stay true to yourself and never let what somebody else says distract you from your goals. And so when I hear about negative and false attacks, I really don’t invest any energy in them, because I know who I am.
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It felt perverse, how the world just carried on. How everyone was still here, except for my Suzanne.
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