Your memory is a monster; you forget – it doesn’t. It simply files things away. It keeps things for you, or hides things from you – and summons them to your recall with a will of its own. You think you have a memory; but it has you!
JOHN IRVINGIt’s a no-win argument – that business of what we’re born with and what our environment does to us. And it’s a boring argument, because it simplifies the mysteries that attend both our birth and our growth.
More John Irving Quotes
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When writing a novel, I’m not smart enough to know how to foreshadow something if I don’t know what it is.
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Nothing bears out in practice what it promises incipiently.
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It happens to many teenagers-that moment when you feel full of resentment or distrust for those adults you once loved unquestioningly.
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I certainly think Obama is the most hopeful president I’ve seen in the country since John Kennedy.
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Life is an X-rated soap opera.
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but writers, Garp knew, were just observers – good and ruthless imitators of human behavior.
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The unspoken factor is love. The reason I can work so hard at my writing is that it’s not work for me.
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Children are most impressed with the importance of a moment when they witness a parent breaking the parents’ own rule.
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I suppose I’m proudest of my novels for what’s imagined in them. I think the world of my imagination is a richer and more interesting place than my personal biography.
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It is hard work and great art to make life not so serious.
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They all settled into being the kind of friends when they heard from each other…. or when they occasionally got together. And when they were not in touch, they did not think of one another.
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A writer’s job is to imagine everything so personally that the fiction is as vivid as memories.
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I will tell you what is my overriding perception of the last twenty years: that we are a civilization careening toward a succession of anticlimaxes – toward an infinity of unsatisfying, and disagreeable endings.
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You don’t want to be ungenerous toward people who give you prizes, but it is never the social or political message that interests me in a novel. I begin with an interest in a relationship, a situation, a character.
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You know, everybody dies. My parents died. Your father died. Everybody dies. I’m going to die too. So will you. The thing is, to have a life before we die. It can be a real adventure having a life
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