If you presume to love something, you must love the process of it much more than you love the finished product.
JOHN IRVING… and so he tried to accept the ache in his heart as what Dr. Larch would call the common symptoms of normal life.
More John Irving Quotes
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THERE’S NO MONKEY BUSINESS ABOUT THIS ELECTION,’ he told the voters. ‘IF YOU’RE ENOUGH OF AN ASSHOLE TO VOTE FOR NIXON, YOUR DUMB VOTE WILL BE COUNTED––JUST LIKE ANYBODY ELSE!
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He also knew that rivals are best unmanned by being ignored.
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What is hardest to accept about the passage of time is that the people who once mattered the most to us wind up in parentheses.
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When I finally write the first sentence, I want to know everything that happens, so that I am not inventing the story as I write it – rather, I am remembering a story that has already happened.
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A part of adolescence is feelimg that there’s no one else around who’s enough like youself to understand you.
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In increments both measurable and not, our childhood is stolen from us — not always in one momentous event but often in a series of small robberies, which add up to the same loss.
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Rituals are comforting; rituals combat loneliness.
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Everybody dies … The thing is, to have a life before we die.
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In the world according to her father, Jenny Garp knew, we must have energy. Her famous grandmother, Jenny Fields, once thought of us as Externals, Vital Organs, Absentees, and Goners. But in the world according to Garp, we are all terminal cases.
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When Jack Burns needed to hold his mother’s hand, his fingers could see in the dark.
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It’s not right to hurt or deceive someone who’s already been hurt and deceived.
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I have no respect for the right-to-life position, though I have every respect for an individual who says, “I could never have that procedure, I could never see a film or read a book about that procedure.” It doesn’t bother me if people feel that way.
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So, I don’t work in terms of real time. I don’t work in a timely fashion.
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In the world according to Garp, we are all terminal cases
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But I often think that so-called glamorous people are just very busy people.
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