Life forces enough final decisions on us. We should have the sense to avoid as many of the unnecessary ones as we can.
JOHN IRVING… and so he tried to accept the ache in his heart as what Dr. Larch would call the common symptoms of normal life.
More John Irving Quotes
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Keep passing the open windows.
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I’ve always been slow but I’m even slower now. I’m more into the waiting, or I guess I’m more patient about the waiting.
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…I suddenly realized what small towns are. They are places where you grow up with the peculiar-you live next door to the strange and the unlikely for so long that everything and everyone become commonplace.
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No adult in my family would ever tell me anything about who my father was. I knew from an older cousin – only four years older than I am – everything, or what little I could discover about him.
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It’s not right to hurt or deceive someone who’s already been hurt and deceived.
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but good friends are nothing to each other if they are not supportive.
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But I often think that so-called glamorous people are just very busy people.
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The excitement of anticipation was *almost* equal to the thrill of lovemaking.
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I’ve always preferred writing in longhand. I’ve always written first drafts in longhand.
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If we live long enough, we become caricatures of ourselves.
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People are either attracted to the unseemly or disapproving of it, or both; yet we try to sound superior to the unseemly by pretending to be amused by it or indifferent to it.
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The lie, of course, is more interesting.
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He also knew that rivals are best unmanned by being ignored.
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Being reviewed is being condescended to by your inferiors.
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He had in abundance youth’s most dangerous qualities: optimism and relentlessness. He would risk everything he had to fly the plane that could carry the bomb within him.
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