If we live long enough, we become caricatures of ourselves.
JOHN IRVINGThey all settled into being the kind of friends when they heard from each other…. or when they occasionally got together. And when they were not in touch, they did not think of one another.
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In the world according to Garp, we are all terminal cases
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It is exhausting to be seventeen and not know who you are.
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There is no straightforward negotiation with a four year old.
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You’ve got to get obsessed and stay obsessed.
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Whereas she wished more of the population were better educated, she also believed that education was largely wasted on the majority of the people she met.
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How we love to love things for other people; how we love to have other people love things through our eyes.
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He also knew that rivals are best unmanned by being ignored.
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I am compulsive about writing, I need to do it the way I need sleep and exercise and food and sex; I can go without it for a while, but then I need it.
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It’s not right to hurt or deceive someone who’s already been hurt and deceived.
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Kids are beautiful, man. And they know much more than grownups think they know. Kids are just perfect people until grownups get their hands on them.
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Life,” Garp wrote, “is sadly not structured like a good old-fashioned novel. Instead an end occurs when those who are meant to peter out have petered out. All that is left is memory. But even a nihilist has memory.
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YOU LET ME DROWN!” Owen said. “YOU DIDN’T DO ANYTHING! YOU JUST WATCHED ME DROWN! I’M ALREADY DEAD!” he told us. “REMEMBER THAT: YOU LET ME DIE.
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I still believe in getting married in churches and baptizing children. I go through those motions.
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He had in abundance youth’s most dangerous qualities: optimism and relentlessness. He would risk everything he had to fly the plane that could carry the bomb within him.
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You’re nice,’ Cushie told him, squeezing his hand. ‘And you’re my oldest friend.’ But they both must have known that you can know someone all your life and never quite be friends.
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