It is your responsibility to find fault with me, it is mine to hear you out. But don’t expect me to change.
JOHN IRVINGI think now that is the nature of hymns-they make us want to repeat them…they are a part of any service, and often the only part of a funeral service, that makes us feel everything is acceptable.
More John Irving Quotes
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They were involved in that awkward procedure of getting to unknow each other.
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Don’t you understand?” he would say, “You imagine the story better than I remember it.
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The unspoken factor is love. The reason I can work so hard at my writing is that it’s not work for me.
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If you asked me one day, I might say, “Well, sometimes I feel a little bit religious.” If you asked me another day, I’d just say flat out, “No.”
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Death, it seems,” Garp wrote, “does not like to wait until we are prepared for it. Death is indulgent and enjoys, when it can, a flair for the dramatic.
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All I say is: Let us leave les folles alone; let’s just leave them be. Don’t judge them. You are not superior to them – don’t put them down.
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but writers, Garp knew, were just observers – good and ruthless imitators of human behavior.
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Writing a novel is actually searching for victims. As I write I keep looking for casualties. The stories uncover the casualties.
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You can’t learn everything you need to know legally.
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In the world according to her father, Jenny Garp knew, we must have energy. Her famous grandmother, Jenny Fields, once thought of us as Externals, Vital Organs, Absentees, and Goners. But in the world according to Garp, we are all terminal cases.
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What is hardest to accept about the passage of time is that the people who once mattered the most to us wind up in parentheses.
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No one could have fathomed what a life he’d led, for it was chiefly a life lived in his mind.
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He also knew that rivals are best unmanned by being ignored.
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…I suddenly realized what small towns are. They are places where you grow up with the peculiar-you live next door to the strange and the unlikely for so long that everything and everyone become commonplace.
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It doesn’t really matter who said it – it’s so obviously true. Before you can write anything, you have to notice something.
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