When you don’t show up as who you are, people fall in love with who you’re not. Then when they find out who you are, that’s when they leave.
IYANLA VANZANTTheir issues are not your issues.
More Iyanla Vanzant Quotes
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Education does not take place when you learn something you did not know before. Education is your ability to use what you have learned to be better today than you were yesterday.
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When your life is working there will be an absence of drama.
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Be patient when it seems things are not going right and may never be right again. Accept that what is yours will come to you in the right way at just the right moment.
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If you should encounter angry or unkind actions today, take a deep breath, reach deep within and greet the lack of love with love.
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Love people enough to tell them the truth and respect them enough to trust that they can handle it.
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Don’t get hung up on the hard times, the challenges. Tell your story by highlighting the victories. Because it’s your victories that will inspire, motivate, encourage other people to live their stories in grander ways.
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Everything that happens to you is a reflection of what you believe about yourself. We cannot outperform our level of self-esteem. We cannot draw to ourselves more than we think we are worth.
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Just for today, allow yourself to embrace all that you are every moment. Know that you are a vessel of light. Allow yourself to release all doubts about your ability, the mistakes of the past, the fear of the future.
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Everybody does not have to like you. That is not their job. Liking you is not anyone’s purpose in life except yours.
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Family is supposed to be our safe haven. Very often, it’s the place where we find the deepest heartache.
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When you continue to give without receiving, the only thing you are proving is that you know how to be taken advantage of.
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Gratitude is like a magnet; the more grateful you are, the more you will receive to be grateful for.
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When the time comes for you to make a change or to grow, the universe will make you so uncomfortable you will eventually have no choice.
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Many of us have a need to be right. We then set out to make ourselves right by making someone else wrong. We must get right with ourselves. Once we do, we will have so much to do, we will not have time to keep track of who is wrong.
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Acceptance means that you know, regardless of what happened, that there is something bigger than you at work. It also means you know that you are okay and that you will continue to be okay.
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