I don’t let any personal views about religion cause me to want to take away something that’s offering the patient comfort.
IRVIN D. YALOMThere are borderlines and there are borderlines. Labels do violence to people. You can’t treat the label; you have to treat the person behind the label. (17)
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Rather, love is a way of being, a “giving to,” not a ‘falling for”; a mode of relating at large, not an act limited to a single person.
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…the more unlived your life, the greater your death anxiety.
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You will search the world over and not find a nonsuperstitious community. As long as there is ignorance, there will be adherence to superstition. Dispelling ignorance is the only solution. That is why I teach.
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Your greatest instrument is you, yourself, and the work of self-understanding is endless. I’m still learning.
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What? ‘Borderline patients play games’? That what you said? Ernest, you’ll never be a real therapist if you think like that. That’s exactly what I meant earlier when I talked about the dangers of diagnosis.
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When that person dies, the whole cluster dies,too, vanishes from the living memory. I wonder who that person will be for me. Whose death will make me truly dead?
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Since then mountains and torrential rivers and whatever separates and alienates have been cast between us, and even if we wanted to get together, we couldn’t. But when you now think of that little footbridge, words fail you and you sob and marvel.
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I never want to take away something when I don’t have anything better to offer him in a way.
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He had learned long ago that, in general, the easier it was for anxious patients to reach him, the less likely they were to call. (107)
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Despair is the price one pays for self-awareness. Look deeply into life, and you’ll always find despair.
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I thought a lot about how someone very old is the last living individual to have known some person or cluster of people.
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Every person must choose how much truth he can stand.
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I dream of a love that is more than two people craving to possess one another.
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Pandora’s box, but to re-enter life in a richer, more compassionate manner.
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To the best of my knowledge, every acute inpatient ward offers some inpatient group therapy experience.
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