The spirit of a man is constructed out of his choices.
IRVIN D. YALOMThere are borderlines and there are borderlines. Labels do violence to people. You can’t treat the label; you have to treat the person behind the label. (17)
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What? ‘Borderline patients play games’? That what you said? Ernest, you’ll never be a real therapist if you think like that. That’s exactly what I meant earlier when I talked about the dangers of diagnosis.
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If I’m among men who don’t agree at all with my nature, I will hardly be able to accommodate myself to them without greatly changing myself.
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Living safely is dangerous.
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… sooner or later she had to give up the hope for a better past.
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Your greatest instrument is you, yourself, and the work of self-understanding is endless. I’m still learning.
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Heidegger makes the distinction between being absorbed in the way things are in the world and being aware that things are in the world.
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I must stop him from being one of those who call themselves good because they have no claws.
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Some have expressed the very opposite feeling–the fear that they would not be interesting enough to write about.
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The therapist can make the group feel safer by allowing each patient to set his or her limits and by emphasizing the patient’s control over every interaction.
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A curious thought experiment. . . Nietzsche’s message to us was to live life in such a way that we would be willing to repeat the same life eternally
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The death anxiety of many people is fueled … by disappointment at never having fulfilled their potential.
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A free man who lives among the ignorant strives as far as he can to avoid their favors. A free man acts honestly, not deceptively.
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Perhaps the single most important therapeutic credo that I have is that the unexamined life is not worth living.
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To the best of my knowledge, every acute inpatient ward offers some inpatient group therapy experience.
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I dream of a love that is more than two people craving to possess one another.
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