Reality always creeps in–the reality of our helplessness and our mortality; the reality that, despite our reach for the stars, a creaturely fate awaits us.
IRVIN D. YALOMI thought a lot about how someone very old is the last living individual to have known some person or cluster of people.
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Only the wounded healer can truly heal. (97)
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Death cures psychoneurosis. In a sense all these neurotic concerns–fear of rejection, interpersonal concerns–seem to melt away, and people get another perspective on their lives. The important things are really important, and the trivia of life is trivialized.
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Living safely is dangerous.
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Life is a miserable thing. I have decided to spend my life thinking about it.
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Only free man are genuinely useful to one another and can form true friendships. And it’s absolutely permissible, by the highest right of Nature, for everyone to employ clear reason to determine how to live in a way that will allow him to flourish.
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When people don’t have any curiosity about themselves, that is always a bad sign.
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… sooner or later she had to give up the hope for a better past.
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Some have expressed the very opposite feeling–the fear that they would not be interesting enough to write about.
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Does a being who requires meaning find meaning in a universe that has no meaning?
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Psychiatry is a strange field because, unlike any other field of medicine, you never really finish.
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Therapists need to have a long experience in personal therapy to see what it’s like to be on the other side of the couch and see what they find helpful or not helpful. And if possible, get into therapy at different stages of their life with different kinds of therapists just to sample a bit.
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To love means to be actively concerned for the life and the growth of another.
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To the extent that one is responsible for one’s life, one is alone.
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There is some evidence, for example, that those who enter the death-related professions (soldiers, doctors, priests, and morticians) may in part be motivated by a need to obtain control over death anxiety.
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He had learned long ago that, in general, the easier it was for anxious patients to reach him, the less likely they were to call. (107)
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