The more unlived your life, the greater your death anxiety.
IRVIN D. YALOMI thought a lot about how someone very old is the last living individual to have known some person or cluster of people.
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Love is not just a passion spark between two people; there is infinite difference between falling in love and standing in love.
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The act of revealing oneself fully to another and still being accepted may be the major vehicle of therapeutic help.
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The drive for power is not uncommonly motivated by this dynamic. One’s own fear and sense of limitation is avoided by enlarging oneself and one’s sphere of control.
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I thought a lot about how someone very old is the last living individual to have known some person or cluster of people.
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Life is a miserable thing. I have decided to spend my life thinking about it.
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The creative members of an orthodoxy, any orthodoxy, ultimately outgrow their disciplines.
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A focus on this deep dissatisfaction is often the starting point in overcoming death anxiety.
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Some day soon, perhaps in forty years, there will be no one alive who has ever known me. That’s when I will be truly dead – when I exist in no one’s memory.
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A curious thought experiment. . . Nietzsche’s message to us was to live life in such a way that we would be willing to repeat the same life eternally
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Absolute power, as we have always known, corrupts absolutely; it corrupts because it does not do the trick for the individual.
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Despite the staunchest, most venerable defenses, we can never completely subdue death anxiety: it is always there, lurking in some hidden ravine of the mind.
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There are borderlines and there are borderlines. Labels do violence to people. You can’t treat the label; you have to treat the person behind the label. (17)
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Life is a spark between two identical voids, the darkness before birth and the one after death.
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… sooner or later she had to give up the hope for a better past.
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Never take away anything if you have nothing better to offer
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