The spirit of a man is constructed out of his choices.
IRVIN D. YALOMDeath cures psychoneurosis. In a sense all these neurotic concerns–fear of rejection, interpersonal concerns–seem to melt away, and people get another perspective on their lives. The important things are really important, and the trivia of life is trivialized.
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The therapist can make the group feel safer by allowing each patient to set his or her limits and by emphasizing the patient’s control over every interaction.
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It’s not easy to live every moment wholly aware of death. It’s like trying to stare the sun in the face: you can stand only so much of it. Because we cannot live frozen in fear, we generate methods to soften death’s terror.
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In a study we did of bereavement, we found that rather impressive numbers of widows and widowers had not simply gone back to their pre-loss functioning, but grown.
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I dream of a love that is more than two people craving to possess one another.
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Specialness as a primary mode of death transcendence takes a number of other maladaptive forms.
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Life is a spark between two identical voids, the darkness before birth and the one after death.
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I must stop him from being one of those who call themselves good because they have no claws.
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To the best of my knowledge, every acute inpatient ward offers some inpatient group therapy experience.
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Perhaps the single most important therapeutic credo that I have is that the unexamined life is not worth living.
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I feel strongly, because a man who will himself die one day in the not to distant future and, also, as a psychiatrist who spent decades dealing with death anxiety, that confronting death allows us, not to open some noisome.
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The more you fail to experience your life fully, the more you will fear death.
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One doesn’t do existential therapy as a freestanding separate theory; rather it informs your approach to such issues as death, which many therapists tend to shy away from.
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If I’m among men who don’t agree at all with my nature, I will hardly be able to accommodate myself to them without greatly changing myself.
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Never take away anything if you have nothing better to offer
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I thought a lot about how someone very old is the last living individual to have known some person or cluster of people.
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