None of my patients are really troubled by the idea that some part of what they say might be in a book in the future.
IRVIN D. YALOMAnd if you do the latter, you’re not so worried about the everyday trivialities of life, for example, petty concerns about secrecy or privacy.
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One thing I feel clear about is that it’s important not to let your life live you. Otherwise, you end up at forty feeling you haven’t really lived. What have I learned? Perhaps to live now, so that at fifty I won’t look back upon my forties with regret.
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Some sort of greater awareness of their own finiteness and what their time on earth really is, and what they really want to do with their lives, could help improve them.
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There are borderlines and there are borderlines. Labels do violence to people. You can’t treat the label; you have to treat the person behind the label. (17)
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… sooner or later she had to give up the hope for a better past.
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The death anxiety of many people is fueled … by disappointment at never having fulfilled their potential.
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If one is to learn to live with the dead, one must first learn to live with the living!
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Pandora’s box, but to re-enter life in a richer, more compassionate manner.
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Were not teaching our students the importance of relationships with other people: how you work with them, what the relational pathology consists of, how you examine your own conscience, how you examine the inner world, how you examine your dreams.
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Absolute power, as we have always known, corrupts absolutely; it corrupts because it does not do the trick for the individual.
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Since then mountains and torrential rivers and whatever separates and alienates have been cast between us, and even if we wanted to get together, we couldn’t. But when you now think of that little footbridge, words fail you and you sob and marvel.
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Living safely is dangerous.
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One comprehends oneself in order not to be preoccupied with oneself.
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He had learned long ago that, in general, the easier it was for anxious patients to reach him, the less likely they were to call. (107)
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When people don’t have any curiosity about themselves, that is always a bad sign.
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To love means to be actively concerned for the life and the growth of another.
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