Only take someone’s hand in a certain way, even look into their eyes in a certain way, and the world is changed forever.
IRIS MURDOCHFalling out of love is chiefly a matter of forgetting how charming someone is.
More Iris Murdoch Quotes
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Violence is born of the desire to escape oneself.
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An experience is richest not talked of.
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Love is the Extremely difficult realization that something other than oneself is real.
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I think being a woman is like being Irish, Everyone says you’re important and nice, but you take second place all the time.
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But one must do something about the past. It doesn’t just cease to be. It goes on existing and affecting the present, and in new and different ways, as if in some other dimension it too were growing.
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I feel I’m at the end of something – everything is going to be different – and terrible.
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What I needed with all my starved and silent soul was just that particular way of shouting back at the world.
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Bereavement is a darkness impenetrable to the imagination of the unbereaved.
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That doesn’t sound like you, you ride every wave. There is one that will drown me
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As we live our precarious lives on the brink of the void, constantly coming closer to a state of nonbeing, we are all too often aware of our fragitlity.
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Only the very greatest art invigorates without consoling.
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The bicycle is the most civilized conveyance known to man. Other forms of transport grow daily more nightmarish. Only the bicycle remains pure in heart.
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To lose somebody is to lose not only their person but all those modes and manifestations into which their person has flowed outwards; so that in losing a beloved one may find so many things, pictures, poems, melodies, places lost too: Dante, Avignon, a song of Shakespeare’s, the Cornish sea.
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I don’t think I can marry, I’m not fit for it, I’m not real enough. That’s the trouble. I’m a puppet that’s realised what’s wrong with itself and it’s horrible. I’m propped up somewhere all alone, watching the real people go past. I’m propped up crying in a corner.
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I feel half faded away like some figure in the background of an old picture.
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