The theatre is certainly a place for learning about the brevity of human glory: oh all those wonderful glittering absolutely vanished pantomime! Now I shall abjure magic and become a hermit : put myself in a situation where I can honestly say that I have nothing else to do but to learn to be good.
IRIS MURDOCHFalling out of love is chiefly a matter of forgetting how charming someone is.
More Iris Murdoch Quotes
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For most of us, for almost all of us, truth can be attained, if at all, only in silence. It is in silence that the human spirit touches the divine.
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How different each death is, and yet it leads us into the self-same country, that country which we inhabit so rarely, where we see the worthlessness of what we have long pursued and will so soon return to pursuing.
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One should go easy on smashing other people’s lies. Better to concentrate on one’s own.
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Freedom may be a value in politics, but it is not a value in morals.
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People have disappointed me and deceived me and let me down.
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To lose somebody is to lose not only their person but all those modes and manifestations into which their person has flowed outwards; so that in losing a beloved one may find so many things, pictures, poems, melodies, places lost too: Dante, Avignon, a song of Shakespeare’s, the Cornish sea.
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That doesn’t sound like you, you ride every wave. There is one that will drown me
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But one must do something about the past. It doesn’t just cease to be. It goes on existing and affecting the present, and in new and different ways, as if in some other dimension it too were growing.
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A bad review is even less important than whether it is raining in Patagonia.
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I felt a deep grief that crouched and stayed still as if it was afraid to move.
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Perhaps there was an intimacy which did not need words.
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We defend ourselves with descriptions and tame the world by generalizing.
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I took a deep breath, however, and followed my rule of never speaking frankly to women in moments of emotion. No good ever comes of this.
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What I needed with all my starved and silent soul was just that particular way of shouting back at the world.
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Every artist is an unhappy lover. And unhappy lovers want to tell their story.
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