Love is the Extremely difficult realization that something other than oneself is real.
IRIS MURDOCHJealousy is the most dreadfully involuntary of all sins.
More Iris Murdoch Quotes
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Every persisting marriage is based on fear’, said Peregrine. ‘Fear is fundamental, you dig down in human nature and what’s at the bottom? Mean spiteful cruel self-regarding fear, whether it makes you to put the foot in it or whether it makes you to cower.
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I’ve felt as if I didn’t exist, as if I were invisible, miles away from the world, miles away. You can’t imagine how much alone I’ve been all my life.
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One of the secrets of a happy life is continous small treats.
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That doesn’t sound like you, you ride every wave. There is one that will drown me
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I took a deep breath, however, and followed my rule of never speaking frankly to women in moments of emotion. No good ever comes of this.
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Of course reading and thinking are important but, my God, food is important too.
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The theatre is certainly a place for learning about the brevity of human glory: oh all those wonderful glittering absolutely vanished pantomime! Now I shall abjure magic and become a hermit : put myself in a situation where I can honestly say that I have nothing else to do but to learn to be good.
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Jealousy is perhaps the most involuntary of all strong emotions. It steals consciousness, it lies deeper than thought. It is always there, like a blackness in the eye, it discolours the world.
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Coffee, unless it is very good and made by somebody else, is pretty intolerable at any time.
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One should go easy on smashing other people’s lies. Better to concentrate on one’s own.
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There is no substitute for the comfort supplied by the utterly taken-for-granted relationship.
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People from a planet without flowers would think we must be mad with joy the whole time to have such things about us.
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Time, like the sea, unties all knots.
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Anything that consoles is fake.
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Her eyes, which refused to meet mine, had the defensive coldness of those who are determined to lose hope.
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