I’ve been so unhappy for years, so unhappy, I don’t understand how a human being can be so unhappy all the time and still be alive.
IRIS MURDOCHThose who hope, by retiring from the world, to earn a holiday from human frailty, in themselves and others, are usually disappointed.
More Iris Murdoch Quotes
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Art and psychoanalisis give shape and meaning to life and that’s why we adore them. However, life as it is lived has no shape nor meaning, and that’s what I am experiencing right now.
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I feel half faded away like some figure in the background of an old picture.
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But one must do something about the past. It doesn’t just cease to be. It goes on existing and affecting the present, and in new and different ways, as if in some other dimension it too were growing.
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Jealousy is the most dreadfully involuntary of all sins.
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Love is the extremely difficult realization that something other than oneself is real.
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Every artist is an unhappy lover. And unhappy lovers want to tell their story.
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We defend ourselves with descriptions and tame the world by generalizing.
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Hegel says that Truth is a great word and the thing is greater still. With Dave we never seemed to get past the word.
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Love doesn’t think like that. All right, it’s blind as a bat- Bats have radar. Yours doesnt seem to be working.
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White magic is black magic. A less than perfect meddling in the spiritual world can breed monsters for other people, and demons used for good can hang around and make mischief afterwards.
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I have nobody in the world. I’ll kill myself. That’s best. Everyone will say, It’s for the best that she killed herself, she’s better off dead. I hate myself so much I could spend hours and hours just screaming with hatred and with the pain of it, oh the pain of it.
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Bereavement is a darkness impenetrable to the imagination of the unbereaved.
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We can only learn to love by loving.
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What I needed with all my starved and silent soul was just that particular way of shouting back at the world.
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Guilt keeps people imprisoned in themselves.
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