How different each death is, and yet it leads us into the self-same country, that country which we inhabit so rarely, where we see the worthlessness of what we have long pursued and will so soon return to pursuing.
IRIS MURDOCHI think being a woman is like being Irish, Everyone says you’re important and nice, but you take second place all the time.
More Iris Murdoch Quotes
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We live in a fantasy world, a world of illusion. The great task in life is to find reality says Iris Murdoch. But given the state of the world, is it wise?
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A bad review is even less important than whether it is raining in Patagonia.
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Every book is the wreck of a perfect idea.
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Every man needs two women, a quiet home-maker, and a thrilling nymph.
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Her eyes, which refused to meet mine, had the defensive coldness of those who are determined to lose hope.
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In philosophy if you aren’t moving at a snail’s pace you aren’t moving at all.
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To lose somebody is to lose not only their person but all those modes and manifestations into which their person has flowed outwards; so that in losing a beloved one may find so many things, pictures, poems, melodies, places lost too: Dante, Avignon, a song of Shakespeare’s, the Cornish sea.
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Every persisting marriage is based on fear’, said Peregrine. ‘Fear is fundamental, you dig down in human nature and what’s at the bottom? Mean spiteful cruel self-regarding fear, whether it makes you to put the foot in it or whether it makes you to cower.
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Perhaps when distant people on other planets pick up some wavelength of ours all they hear is a continuous scream.
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I’ve been so unhappy for years, so unhappy, I don’t understand how a human being can be so unhappy all the time and still be alive.
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People from a planet without flowers would think we must be mad with joy the whole time to have such things about us.
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I think being a woman is like being Irish, Everyone says you’re important and nice, but you take second place all the time.
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Of course reading and thinking are important but, my God, food is important too.
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What a test that is: more than devotion, admiration, passion. If you long and long for someone’s company you love them.
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I don’t think I can marry, I’m not fit for it, I’m not real enough. That’s the trouble. I’m a puppet that’s realised what’s wrong with itself and it’s horrible. I’m propped up somewhere all alone, watching the real people go past. I’m propped up crying in a corner.
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