I don’t think I can marry, I’m not fit for it, I’m not real enough. That’s the trouble. I’m a puppet that’s realised what’s wrong with itself and it’s horrible. I’m propped up somewhere all alone, watching the real people go past. I’m propped up crying in a corner.
IRIS MURDOCHEvery man needs two women, a quiet home-maker, and a thrilling nymph.
More Iris Murdoch Quotes
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Of course this chattering diary is a facade, the literary equivalent of the everyday smiling face which hides the inward ravages of jealousy, remorse, fear and the consciousness of irretrievable moral failure. Yet such pretenses are not only consolations but may even be productive of a little ersatz courage.
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What I needed with all my starved and silent soul was just that particular way of shouting back at the world.
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Perhaps there was an intimacy which did not need words.
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We live in a fantasy world, a world of illusion. The great task in life is to find reality says Iris Murdoch. But given the state of the world, is it wise?
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One should go easy on smashing other people’s lies. Better to concentrate on one’s own.
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People from a planet without flowers would think we must be mad with joy the whole time to have such things about us.
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Writing is like getting married. One should never commit oneself until one is amazed at one’s luck.
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Our actions are like ships which we may watch set out to sea, and not know when or with what cargo they will return to port.
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Guilt keeps people imprisoned in themselves.
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What a test that is: more than devotion, admiration, passion. If you long and long for someone’s company you love them.
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Every book is the wreck of a perfect idea.
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The theatre is certainly a place for learning about the brevity of human glory: oh all those wonderful glittering absolutely vanished pantomime! Now I shall abjure magic and become a hermit : put myself in a situation where I can honestly say that I have nothing else to do but to learn to be good.
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Of course reading and thinking are important but, my God, food is important too.
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Freedom may be a value in politics, but it is not a value in morals.
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I took a deep breath, however, and followed my rule of never speaking frankly to women in moments of emotion. No good ever comes of this.
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