Love is the extremely difficult realization that something other than oneself is real.
IRIS MURDOCHOur actions are like ships which we may watch set out to sea, and not know when or with what cargo they will return to port.
More Iris Murdoch Quotes
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Jealousy is perhaps the most involuntary of all strong emotions. It steals consciousness, it lies deeper than thought. It is always there, like a blackness in the eye, it discolours the world.
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I don’t think I can marry, I’m not fit for it, I’m not real enough. That’s the trouble. I’m a puppet that’s realised what’s wrong with itself and it’s horrible. I’m propped up somewhere all alone, watching the real people go past. I’m propped up crying in a corner.
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Jealousy is the most dreadfully involuntary of all sins.
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We defend ourselves with descriptions and tame the world by generalizing.
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Between saying and doing, many a pair of shoes is worn out.
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We need a moral philosophy which can speak significantly of Freud and Marx and out of which aesthetic and political views can be generated. We need a moral philosophy in which the concept of love, so rarely mentioned now, can once again be made central.
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The talk of lovers who have just declared their love is one of life’s most sweet delights. Each vies with the other in humility, in amazement at being so valued. The past is searched for the first signs and each one is in haste to declare all that he is so that no part of his being escapes the hallowing touch.
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I’ve been so unhappy for years, so unhappy, I don’t understand how a human being can be so unhappy all the time and still be alive.
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Youth is a marvelous garment.
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Coffee, unless it is very good and made by somebody else, is pretty intolerable at any time.
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People from a planet without flowers would think we must be mad with joy the whole time to have such things about us.
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I took a deep breath, however, and followed my rule of never speaking frankly to women in moments of emotion. No good ever comes of this.
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I felt a deep grief that crouched and stayed still as if it was afraid to move.
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Violence is born of the desire to escape oneself.
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I feel half faded away like some figure in the background of an old picture.
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