I don’t think I can marry, I’m not fit for it, I’m not real enough. That’s the trouble. I’m a puppet that’s realised what’s wrong with itself and it’s horrible. I’m propped up somewhere all alone, watching the real people go past. I’m propped up crying in a corner.
IRIS MURDOCHWe can only learn to love by loving.
More Iris Murdoch Quotes
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I’ve been so unhappy for years, so unhappy, I don’t understand how a human being can be so unhappy all the time and still be alive.
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The bicycle is the most civilized conveyance known to man. Other forms of transport grow daily more nightmarish. Only the bicycle remains pure in heart.
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One of the secrets of a happy life is continuous small treats, and if some of these can be inexpensive and quickly procured so much the better.
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Perhaps there was an intimacy which did not need words.
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I feel I’m at the end of something – everything is going to be different – and terrible.
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Time, like the sea, unties all knots.
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People have disappointed me and deceived me and let me down.
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What an extraordinary satisfaction there is in cleaning things! (Does the satisfaction depend on ownership? I suspect so.
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Hegel says that Truth is a great word and the thing is greater still. With Dave we never seemed to get past the word.
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Our actions are like ships which we may watch set out to sea, and not know when or with what cargo they will return to port.
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Falling out of love is chiefly a matter of forgetting how charming someone is.
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What I needed with all my starved and silent soul was just that particular way of shouting back at the world.
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But one must do something about the past. It doesn’t just cease to be. It goes on existing and affecting the present, and in new and different ways, as if in some other dimension it too were growing.
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We need a moral philosophy which can speak significantly of Freud and Marx and out of which aesthetic and political views can be generated. We need a moral philosophy in which the concept of love, so rarely mentioned now, can once again be made central.
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Only the very greatest art invigorates without consoling.
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