There is no substitute for the comfort supplied by the utterly taken-for-granted relationship.
IRIS MURDOCHThere is no substitute for the comfort supplied by the utterly taken-for-granted relationship.
IRIS MURDOCHWriting is like getting married. One should never commit oneself until one is amazed at one’s luck.
IRIS MURDOCHThose who hope, by retiring from the world, to earn a holiday from human frailty, in themselves and others, are usually disappointed.
IRIS MURDOCHFalling out of love is chiefly a matter of forgetting how charming someone is.
IRIS MURDOCHThere is a gulf fixed between those who can sleep and those who cannot. It is one of the greatest divisions of the human race.
IRIS MURDOCHLet us not waste love, it is rare enough.
IRIS MURDOCHThe most essential and fundamental aspect of culture is the study of literature, since this is an education in how to picture and understand human situations.
IRIS MURDOCHAn experience is richest not talked of.
IRIS MURDOCHWhat an extraordinary satisfaction there is in cleaning things! (Does the satisfaction depend on ownership? I suspect so.
IRIS MURDOCHEvery man needs two women, a quiet home-maker, and a thrilling nymph.
IRIS MURDOCHWhite magic is black magic. A less than perfect meddling in the spiritual world can breed monsters for other people, and demons used for good can hang around and make mischief afterwards.
IRIS MURDOCHArt and psychoanalisis give shape and meaning to life and that’s why we adore them. However, life as it is lived has no shape nor meaning, and that’s what I am experiencing right now.
IRIS MURDOCHAnything that consoles is fake.
IRIS MURDOCHI’ve been so unhappy for years, so unhappy, I don’t understand how a human being can be so unhappy all the time and still be alive.
IRIS MURDOCHOf course this chattering diary is a facade, the literary equivalent of the everyday smiling face which hides the inward ravages of jealousy, remorse, fear and the consciousness of irretrievable moral failure. Yet such pretenses are not only consolations but may even be productive of a little ersatz courage.
IRIS MURDOCHPeople have disappointed me and deceived me and let me down.
IRIS MURDOCH