If people are really narcissistic or have a need to be seen as more than they really are, or to be admired as having it all together, then they cannot be followed and trusted by others.
HENRY CLOUDA culture is like an immune system. It operates through the laws of systems, just like a body. If a body has an infection, the immune system deals with it. Similarly, a group enforces its norms, either actively or passively.
More Henry Cloud Quotes
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The human heart will seek to be known, understood, and connected with above all else. If you do not connect, the ones you care about will find someone who will.
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Faith goes beyond reason. It goes beyond what you can see. But it is as real as anything you can touch or feel.
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You aren’t alive if you aren’t in need.
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You have to be able to face losing some things you might want in order to be free to do the right thing.
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Be Hard on the issue, Soft on the person.
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Good pain is pain in the service of a purpose. Bad pain is pain endured because we are resisting a needed growth step.
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Spouses in healthy relationships cherish each other’s space and are champions of each other’s causes.
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A person who hasn’t grieved a significant loss has unfinished business inside and can cause others great grief as a result.
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Who a person is will ultimately determine if their brains, talents, competencies, energy, effort, deal-making abilities, and opportunities will succeed.
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Whatever’s happening today, remember it is only ONE SCENE in a long movie. Don’t treat it like it’s the whole story. Keep writing the story.
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The natural response to evaluation is to feel judged. We have to mature to a place where we respond to it with gratitude, and love feedback.
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Things don’t change in a marriage until the spouse who is taking responsibility for a problem that is not hers decides to say or do something about it.
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Consequences give us the pain that motivates us to change.
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In a very real way, ownership is the essence of leadership. When you are ridiculously in charge, then you own whatever happens in a company, school.
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True intimacy is only build around the freedom to disagree.
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