Couples often live out years of falsehood trying to protect and save a relationship, all the while destroying any chance of real relationship.
HENRY CLOUDPeople tend to look at dating sort of like a safari – like they’re trying to land the trophy.
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Things don’t change in a marriage until the spouse who is taking responsibility for a problem that is not hers decides to say or do something about it.
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People tend to look at dating sort of like a safari – like they’re trying to land the trophy.
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In a very real way, ownership is the essence of leadership. When you are ridiculously in charge, then you own whatever happens in a company, school.
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Dont use all-or-nothing thinking. Take each day as its own day, and dont worry about it if you mess up one day. The most important thing you can do is just get back up on the horse.
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Confronting an irresponsible person is not painful to him; only consequences are.
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A person who hasn’t grieved a significant loss has unfinished business inside and can cause others great grief as a result.
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Christianity is not about morality. It’s about reality.
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For someone’s character to grow, it has to be free from internal attack. Falling down never stopped children from developing. But getting yelled at, criticized, and put down can stop them for life.
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A leader’s responsibility is to cause a vision and mission to have tangible results in the real world.
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Some goals are not going to fulfill you. Choose goals that you value and care about.
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The extent to which two people in a relationship can bring up and resolve issues is a critical marker of the soundness of a relationship.
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In the end, as a leader, you are always going to get a combination of two things: what you create and what you allow.
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You aren’t alive if you aren’t in need.
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If your boundary training consists only of words, you are wasting your breath. But if you ‘do’ boundaries with your kids, they internalize the experiences, remember them, digest them, and make them part of how they see reality.
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The natural response to evaluation is to feel judged. We have to mature to a place where we respond to it with gratitude, and love feedback.
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