If your boundary training consists only of words, you are wasting your breath. But if you ‘do’ boundaries with your kids, they internalize the experiences, remember them, digest them, and make them part of how they see reality.
HENRY CLOUDPeople tend to look at dating sort of like a safari – like they’re trying to land the trophy.
More Henry Cloud Quotes
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We have our own thoughts, and if we want others to know them, we must tell them.
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We all make mistakes, but the people who thrive from their mistakes are the successful ones.
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When you encourage someone, it literally changes their brain chemistry to be able to perform, sends fuel to the brain.
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Good pain is pain in the service of a purpose. Bad pain is pain endured because we are resisting a needed growth step.
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One of the worst things you can die with is potential.
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In the end, as a leader, you are always going to get a combination of two things: what you create and what you allow.
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A person who hasn’t grieved a significant loss has unfinished business inside and can cause others great grief as a result.
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Leave your pride, ego, and narcissism somewhere else. Reactions from those parts of you will reinforce your children’s most primitive fears.
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Who a person is will ultimately determine if their brains, talents, competencies, energy, effort, deal-making abilities, and opportunities will succeed.
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If you are building a culture where honest expectations are communicated and peer accountability is the norm, then the group will address poor performance and attitudes.
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Boundaries are basically about providing structure, and structure is essential in building anything that thrives.
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Be Hard on the issue, Soft on the person.
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Faith goes beyond reason. It goes beyond what you can see. But it is as real as anything you can touch or feel.
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Confronting an irresponsible person is not painful to him; only consequences are.
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The physicality of a real relationship – one that encompasses mind, body and soul – ultimately makes it more fulfilling and powerful than any virtual relationship ever could be.
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