The only feelings that do not heal are the ones you hide.
HENRI NOUWENThe only feelings that do not heal are the ones you hide.
HENRI NOUWENOne of the tragedies of our life is that we keep forgetting who we are.
HENRI NOUWENJoy does not simply happen to us. We have to choose joy and keep choosing it every day.
HENRI NOUWENListening is a form of spiritual hospitality by which you invite strangers to become friends, to get to know their inner selves more fully, and even to dare to be silent with you.
HENRI NOUWENThe fruits of your labors may be reaped two generations from now. Trust, even when you don’t see the results.
HENRI NOUWENYou don’t think your way into a new kind of living. You live your way into a new kind of thinking.
HENRI NOUWENEvery time there are losses, there are choices to be made. You choose to live your losses as passages to anger, blame, hatred, depression and resentment, or you choose to let these losses be passages to something new, something wider, and deeper.
HENRI NOUWENOur greatest fulfillment lies in giving ourselves to others.
HENRI NOUWENI often wonder if my knowledge about God has not become my greatest stumbling block to my knowledge of God.
HENRI NOUWENWithout solitude it is virtually impossible to live a spiritual life. We do not take the spiritual life seriously if we do not set aside some time to be with God and listen to him.
HENRI NOUWENHospitality is not to change people, but to offer them space where change can take place.
HENRI NOUWENOur humanity comes to its fullest bloom in giving. We become beautiful people when we give whatever we can give: a smile, a handshake, a kiss, an embrace, a word of love, a present, a part of our life…all of our life.
HENRI NOUWENYour life is not going to be easy, and it should not be easy. It ought to be hard. It ought to be radical; it ought to be restless; it ought to lead you to places you’d rather not go.
HENRI NOUWENThe greatest trap in our life is not success, popularity or power, but self-rejection.
HENRI NOUWENCommunity means that people come together around the table, not just to feed their bodies, but to feed their minds and their relationships.
HENRI NOUWENIf you feel loved, you can do a thousand things. If you feel rejected, everything becomes a problem.
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