If you feel loved, you can do a thousand things. If you feel rejected, everything becomes a problem.
HENRI NOUWENSolitude is the furnace of transformation. Without solitude we remain victims of our society and continue to be entangled in the illusions of the false self.
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Somewhere we know that without silence words lose their meaning, that without listening speaking no longer heals, that without distance closeness cannot cure.
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Prayer is first of all listening to God. It’s openness. God is always speaking; he’s always doing something.
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What makes us human is not our mind but our heart, not our ability to think but our ability to love.
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Those who keep speaking about the sun while walking under a cloudy sky are messengers of hope, the true saints of our day.
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Our greatest fulfillment lies in giving ourselves to others.
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Our life is a time in which sadness and joy kiss each other at every moment.
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I am the prodigal son every time I search for unconditional love where it cannot be found.
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I trust in you, Lord, but keep helping me in my moments of distrust and doubt.
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The great illusion of leadership is to think that man can be led out of the desert by someone who has never been there.
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When we are crushed like grapes, we cannot think of the wine we will become.
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It is in solitude that we discover that being is more important than having and that we are worth more than the results of our efforts. In solitude we discover that our life is not a possession to be defended but a gift to be shared.
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Every time there are losses, there are choices to be made. You choose to live your losses as passages to anger, blame, hatred, depression and resentment, or you choose to let these losses be passages to something new, something wider, and deeper.
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Joy is the experience of knowing that you are unconditionally loved.
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We are called to be fruitful – not successful, not productive, not accomplished. Success comes from strength, stress, and human effort. Fruitfulness comes from vulnerability and the admission of our own weakness.
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We cannot make it rain but we can see to it that the rain falls on prepared soil.
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Community means that people come together around the table, not just to feed their bodies, but to feed their minds and their relationships.
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Spiritual maturity is not knowing what to do with your whole life, but just knowing what to do next.
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The fruits of your labors may be reaped two generations from now. Trust, even when you don’t see the results.
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If I were to let my life be taken over by what is urgent, I might very well never get around to what is essential.
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Dare to love and to be a real friend. The love you give and receive is a reality that will lead you closer and closer to God as well as those whom God has given you to love.
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This brief lifetime is my opportunity to receive love, deepen love, grow in love, and give love.
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Hope means to keep living amid desperation and to keep humming in the darkness.
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The spiritual life is a life beyond moods. It is a life in which we choose joy and do not allow ourselves to become victims of passing feelings of happiness or depression.
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Pay attention to the people God puts in your path if you want to discern what God is up to in your life.
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I often wonder if my knowledge about God has not become my greatest stumbling block to my knowledge of God.
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Joy does not simply happen to us. We have to choose joy and keep choosing it every day.
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