Without solitude it is virtually impossible to live a spiritual life. We do not take the spiritual life seriously if we do not set aside some time to be with God and listen to him.
HENRI NOUWENOnce we deeply trust that we ourselves are precious in God’s eyes, we are able to recognize the preciousness of others and their unique places in God’s heart.
More Henri Nouwen Quotes
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I am the prodigal son every time I search for unconditional love where it cannot be found.
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If I were to let my life be taken over by what is urgent, I might very well never get around to what is essential.
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Somewhere we know that without silence words lose their meaning, that without listening speaking no longer heals, that without distance closeness cannot cure.
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We are all healers who can reach out and offer health, and we are all patients in constant need of help.
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Compassion can never coexist with judgement because judgement creates the distance, the distinction, which prevents us from really being with the other.
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Dear God, I am so afraid to open my clenched fists! Who will I be when I have nothing left to hold on to? Who will I be when I stand before you with empty hands? Please help me to gradually open my hands and to discover that I am not what I own, but what you want to give me.
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Much violence is based on the illusion that life is a property to be defended and not to be shared.
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The greatest trap in our life is not success, popularity or power, but self-rejection.
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Forgiveness changes the way we remember.
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Spiritual maturity is not knowing what to do with your whole life, but just knowing what to do next.
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Compassion requires us to be weak with the weak, vulnerable with the vulnerable, and powerless with the powerless. Compassion means full immersion in the condition of being human.
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What makes us human is not our mind but our heart, not our ability to think but our ability to love.
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Our life is a time in which sadness and joy kiss each other at every moment.
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I trust in you, Lord, but keep helping me in my moments of distrust and doubt.
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Joy does not simply happen to us. We have to choose joy and keep choosing it every day.
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Self-rejection is the greatest enemy of the spiritual life because it contradicts the sacred voice that calls us the Beloved.
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Joy is the experience of knowing that you are unconditionally loved.
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Those we most love cause us not only great joy but also great pain. LOVE is stronger than fear, life stronger than death, hope stronger than despair. We have to trust that the risk of loving is always worth taking.
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Life is just a little opportunity for you during a few years to say, “I love you, too.”
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Every time there are losses, there are choices to be made. You choose to live your losses as passages to anger, blame, hatred, depression and resentment, or you choose to let these losses be passages to something new, something wider, and deeper.
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When we are crushed like grapes, we cannot think of the wine we will become.
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You have to listen to the one who calls you beloved. That has to be affirmed over and over again. That is prayer – listening to the voice of the one who calls you “the beloved.”
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The only feelings that do not heal are the ones you hide.
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Waiting time is not wasting time. Waiting patiently in expectation is the foundation of the spiritual life.
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The fruits of your labors may be reaped two generations from now. Trust, even when you don’t see the results.
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Keep a space where God can let something totally new take place.
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