Hospitality is not to change people, but to offer them space where change can take place.
HENRI NOUWENWhen we are crushed like grapes, we cannot think of the wine we will become.
More Henri Nouwen Quotes
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God, help me to see others not as enemies or as ungodly but rather as thirsty people. And give me the courage and compassion to offer your Living Water, which alone quenches deep thirst.
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The great illusion of leadership is to think that man can be led out of the desert by someone who has never been there.
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The only feelings that do not heal are the ones you hide.
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What makes us human is not our mind but our heart, not our ability to think but our ability to love.
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Every time I take a step in the direction of generosity, I know I am moving from fear to love.
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The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing, not curing, not healing that is a friend who cares.
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Waiting time is not wasting time. Waiting patiently in expectation is the foundation of the spiritual life.
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Community is first of all a quality of the heart. It grows from the spiritual knowledge that we are alive not for ourselves but for one another.
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This brief lifetime is my opportunity to receive love, deepen love, grow in love, and give love.
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Your life is not going to be easy, and it should not be easy. It ought to be hard. It ought to be radical; it ought to be restless; it ought to lead you to places you’d rather not go.
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Be surprised by joy, be surprised by the little flower that shows its beauty in the midst of a barren desert, and be surprised by the immense healing power that keeps bursting forth like springs of fresh water from the depth of our pain.
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We need to be angels for each other, to give each other strength and consolation. Because only when we fully realize that the cup of life is not only a cup of sorrow but also a cup of joy will we be able to drink it.
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Self-rejection is the greatest enemy of the spiritual life because it contradicts the sacred voice that calls us the Beloved.
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Without solitude it is virtually impossible to live a spiritual life. We do not take the spiritual life seriously if we do not set aside some time to be with God and listen to him.
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In our own woundedness, we can become sources of life for others.
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