In our own woundedness, we can become sources of life for others.
HENRI NOUWENBe surprised by joy, be surprised by the little flower that shows its beauty in the midst of a barren desert, and be surprised by the immense healing power that keeps bursting forth like springs of fresh water from the depth of our pain.
More Henri Nouwen Quotes
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Dear God, I am so afraid to open my clenched fists! Who will I be when I have nothing left to hold on to? Who will I be when I stand before you with empty hands? Please help me to gradually open my hands and to discover that I am not what I own, but what you want to give me.
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Let’s not be afraid to look at everything that has brought us to where we are now and trust that we will soon see in it the guiding hand of a loving God.
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Joy does not simply happen to us. We have to choose joy and keep choosing it every day.
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Self-rejection is the greatest enemy of the spiritual life because it contradicts the sacred voice that calls us the Beloved.
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When we are crushed like grapes, we cannot think of the wine we will become.
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You have to listen to the one who calls you beloved. That has to be affirmed over and over again. That is prayer – listening to the voice of the one who calls you “the beloved.”
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Waiting time is not wasting time. Waiting patiently in expectation is the foundation of the spiritual life.
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The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing, not curing, not healing that is a friend who cares.
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Every time there are losses, there are choices to be made. You choose to live your losses as passages to anger, blame, hatred, depression and resentment, or you choose to let these losses be passages to something new, something wider, and deeper.
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For Jesus, there are no countries to be conquered, no ideologies to be imposed, no people to be dominated. There are only children, women and men to be loved.
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Our greatest fulfillment lies in giving ourselves to others.
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Community is first of all a quality of the heart. It grows from the spiritual knowledge that we are alive not for ourselves but for one another.
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I often wonder if my knowledge about God has not become my greatest stumbling block to my knowledge of God.
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Compassion requires us to be weak with the weak, vulnerable with the vulnerable, and powerless with the powerless. Compassion means full immersion in the condition of being human.
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Life is just a little opportunity for you during a few years to say, “I love you, too.”
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Once we deeply trust that we ourselves are precious in God’s eyes, we are able to recognize the preciousness of others and their unique places in God’s heart.
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I am the prodigal son every time I search for unconditional love where it cannot be found.
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Listening is a form of spiritual hospitality by which you invite strangers to become friends, to get to know their inner selves more fully, and even to dare to be silent with you.
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What makes us human is not our mind but our heart, not our ability to think but our ability to love.
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Community means that people come together around the table, not just to feed their bodies, but to feed their minds and their relationships.
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You don’t think your way into a new kind of living. You live your way into a new kind of thinking.
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Solitude is the furnace of transformation. Without solitude we remain victims of our society and continue to be entangled in the illusions of the false self.
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The main question is not, how can we hide our wounds but how can we put our woundedness in service to others.
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Keep a space where God can let something totally new take place.
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We need to be angels for each other, to give each other strength and consolation. Because only when we fully realize that the cup of life is not only a cup of sorrow but also a cup of joy will we be able to drink it.
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We are all healers who can reach out and offer health, and we are all patients in constant need of help.
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