When we believe in our thoughts, when we tell ourselves a story, we suffer. ‘My husband doesn’t respect me.’ ‘I should be thinner.’ Those are stories. When there’s no story, there’s no suffering.
BYRON KATIEFear has only two causes: the thought of losing what you have or the thought of not getting what you want.
More Byron Katie Quotes
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How do I know it was meant to happen this way? Because it did.
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It’s difficult to seek other people’s love. It’s deadly. In seeking it you lose what is genuine. This is the prison we create for ourselves as we seek what we already have.
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After you’ve been doing inquiry for a while, if you have the thought “She doesn’t love me,” you just get the immediate turnaround with a smile: “Oh, I’m not loving myself in this moment.”
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I can find only three kinds of business in the Universe: mine, yours, and God’s.
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I love what I think, and I’m never tempted to believe it.
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Peace doesn’t require two people; it requires only one. It has to be you. The problem begins and ends there.
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We say to others only what we need to hear.
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Life is simple. Everything happens for you, not to you.
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I came to see that there was nothing to forgive, that I was the one who caused my own problems.
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You’re never given more pain than you can handle. You never, ever get more than you can take.
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The Ego’s job is to kill everything but itself.
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I stopped waiting for the world to give me what I wanted; I started giving it to myself.
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What you’re believing in the moment creates your suffering or your happiness.
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To understand our own thinking is to understand all thinking.
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When you think that someone or something other than yourself needs to change, you’re mentally out of your business.
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