Placing the blame or judgment on someone else leaves you powerless to change your experience; taking responsibility for your beliefs and judgments gives you the power to change them.
BYRON KATIEBottom line is, if someone says something about me and it upsets me, it’s true.
More Byron Katie Quotes
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We don’t attach to things; we attach to our stories about them.
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I didn’t fight or shame my thoughts, I questioned them, and they stopped shaming me.
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My experience is that the teachers we need most are the people we’re living with right now.
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Place only your kindest thoughts on everything you experience today. Meet yourself.
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Until we question our stressful thoughts, we remain victims of the images in our head.
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Every stressful thought is a variation on a single theme: This shouldn’t be happening. I shouldn’t be having this experience. God is unjust. Life isn’t fair.
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You don’t experience anxiety unless you’re attached to a thought that isn’t true for you. It’s that simple.
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I came to see that the world is always as it should be, whether I opposed it or not.
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I love the world, because I love the mind that created the world.
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It is easy to be swept away by some overwhelming feeling, so it’s helpful to remember that any stressful feeling is like a compassionate alarm clock that says, “You’re caught in the dream.”
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If you think the cause of your problem is ‘out there,’ you’ll try to solve it from the outside. Take the shortcut: solve it from within.
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So there’s only transcendence in the moment. Nobody can be transcended forever. That’s why I say, “Who cares if you’re enlightened forever?”
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When we believe in our thoughts, when we tell ourselves a story, we suffer. ‘My husband doesn’t respect me.’ ‘I should be thinner.’ Those are stories. When there’s no story, there’s no suffering.
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It’s for each of us to look at what we really do believe – what our belief system really consists of.
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Until you can see everything in the world as your friend, your work is not done.
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