We are never really in control. We just think we are when things happen to be going our way.
BYRON KATIESince the past is unreal and the future is unreal, all your thoughts are about nothing.
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No-one can disappoint you, only your thoughts about them can.
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The world is as you perceive it to be. For me, clarity is a word for beauty. It’s what I am. And when I’m clear, I see only beauty. Nothing else is possible.
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When we believe in our thoughts, when we tell ourselves a story, we suffer. ‘My husband doesn’t respect me.’ ‘I should be thinner.’ Those are stories. When there’s no story, there’s no suffering.
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The most important relationship is the mind’s relationship with itself. In other words, the ultimate – and, really, the only – relationship you have is the relationship with your own thoughts.
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Whenever you think that your needs are not being met, you’re telling the story of a future.
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If you think the cause of your problem is ‘out there,’ you’ll try to solve it from the outside. Take the shortcut: solve it from within.
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We’re all looking for love, in our confusion, until we find our way back to the realization that love is what we already are.
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Stress is an alarm clock that lets you know you’re attached to something not true for you.
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The nature of mind is that it loves everything once it loves itself, just as it opposes everything when it opposes itself.
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There’s no nightmare you can’t wake yourself up from.
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Who would you be without the thought that happiness depends on someone else?
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Every stressful thought is a variation on a single theme: This shouldn’t be happening. I shouldn’t be having this experience. God is unjust. Life isn’t fair.
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It’s difficult to seek other people’s love. It’s deadly. In seeking it you lose what is genuine. This is the prison we create for ourselves as we seek what we already have.
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Peace doesn’t require two people; it requires only one. It has to be you. The problem begins and ends there.
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It’s not the problem that causes our suffering; it’s our thinking about the problem.
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