If you were very bright and you became head of a department, as I did, of the psychology department, you were encouraged to go on to graduate work. But as a women you didn’t even think about discrimination.
BETTY FRIEDANA woman has got to be able to say, and not feel guilty, ‘Who am I, and what do I want out of life?’ She mustn’t feel selfish and neurotic if she wants goals of her own, outside of husband and children.
More Betty Friedan Quotes
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Most of the people in the workforce today will spend some years when they also have children and family responsibilities.
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Dominance is a burden. Most men who are honest will admit that.
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It is perhaps beside the point to remark that bowling alleys and supermarkets have nursery facilities, while schools and colleges and scientific laboratories and government offices do not.
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Protectiveness has often muffled the sound of doors closing against women.
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When I was in high school, even in college, I didn’t have any real image of a career woman or a professional woman.
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Aging is not “lost youth” but a new stage of opportunity and strength.
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This idea that the employment of women, the movement of women outside the home into the work world, and their demand for equality is somehow responsible for increasing juvenile delinquency or the increase in divorce rate, is just so much bullshit.
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When one begins to think about it, America depends rather heavily on women’s passive dependence, their femininity. Femininity, if one still wants to call it that, makes American women a target and a victim of the sexual sell.
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Getting older is an adventure, not a problem.
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There is absolutely no evidence that it is harmful to children if their mother’s health, well-being and autonomy and control of her own destiny is maximized by work outside the home.
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I understood somehow my mother’s frustration. And that it was no good not only for her, but for her children or her husband, that she didn’t have a real use of her ability.
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The only way for a woman, as for a man, to find herself, to know herself as a person, is by creative work of her own.
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We can no longer ignore that voice within women that says: ‘I want something more than my husband and my children and my home.’
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The situation of women and men is not comparable to worker-boss or black and white.
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It is easier to live through someone else than to become complete yourself.
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