When one begins to think about it, America depends rather heavily on women’s passive dependence, their femininity. Femininity, if one still wants to call it that, makes American women a target and a victim of the sexual sell.
BETTY FRIEDANThe feminists had destroyed the old image of woman, but they could not erase the hostility, the prejudice, the discrimination that still remained.
More Betty Friedan Quotes
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The feminine mystique has succeeded in burying millions of American women alive.
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Protectiveness has often muffled the sound of doors closing against women.
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The feminists had destroyed the old image of woman, but they could not erase the hostility, the prejudice, the discrimination that still remained.
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This idea that the employment of women, the movement of women outside the home into the work world, and their demand for equality is somehow responsible for increasing juvenile delinquency or the increase in divorce rate, is just so much bullshit.
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You have to say no to the old ways before you can begin to find the new yes you need.
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I wouldn’t be satisfied with a life lived solely on the barricades. I reserve my right to be frivolous.
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A woman is handicapped by her sex, and handicaps society, either by slavishly copying the pattern of man’s advance in the professions, or by refusing to compete with man at all.
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Most of the people in the workforce today will spend some years when they also have children and family responsibilities.
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I realized that what I was saying was threatening, somehow, to the editors of women’s magazines. That it threatened the very world they were trying to paint, what I then called the “feminine mystique.”
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By now, abortion should be obsolete. And I – and probably a lot of other feminists – wish it were obsolete, because abortion, in itself, is not a value – it is simply the right to chose, which is an essential value.
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The only way for a woman, as for a man, to find herself, to know herself as a person, is by creative work of her own.
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If women’s role in life is limited solely to housewife/mother, it clearly ends when she can no longer bear more children and the children she has borne leave home.
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Men are not the enemy, but the fellow victims. The real enemy is women’s denigration of themselves.
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A good woman is one who loves passionately, has guts, seriousness and passionate convictions, takes responsibility, and shapes society.
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If I were a man, I would strenuously object to the assumption that women have any moral or spiritual superiority as a class.
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Whatever I wrote was heretical. It offended the editors of the women’s magazines.
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Each woman is made to feel it is her own cross to bear if she can’t be the perfect clone of the male superman and the perfect clone of the feminine mystique.
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We can no longer ignore that voice within women that says: ‘I want something more than my husband and my children and my home.’
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Instead of fulfilling the promise of infinite orgasmic bliss, sex in the America of the feminine mystique is becoming a strangely joyless national compulsion, if not a contemptuous mockery.
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No woman gets an orgasm from shining the kitchen floor.
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Who knows what women can be when they are finally free to become themselves? Who knows what women’s intelligence will contribute when it can be nourished without denying love?
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He’s a male chauvinistic piglet.
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Neither woman nor man lives by work, or love, alone … The human self defines itself and grows through love and work: All psychology before and after Freud boils down to that.
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Diversity has got to be a part of modern feminism, and I think that my feminism is stronger because its an inclusive thing. I won’t be backed into a corner that polarizes me against other women. And I wished they wouldn’t be either.
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Today the problem that has no name is how to juggle work, love, home and children.
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I knew one thing. I did not want to be a mommy like mommy.
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