Neither woman nor man lives by work, or love, alone … The human self defines itself and grows through love and work: All psychology before and after Freud boils down to that.
BETTY FRIEDANMen weren’t really the enemy – they were fellow victims suffering from an outmoded masculine mystique that made them feel unnecessarily inadequate when there were no bears to kill.
More Betty Friedan Quotes
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[Feminist:] One who believes in the liberation of that which has been suppressed as female in a man.
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Dominance is a burden. Most men who are honest will admit that.
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If I were a man, I would strenuously object to the assumption that women have any moral or spiritual superiority as a class.
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If women’s role in life is limited solely to housewife/mother, it clearly ends when she can no longer bear more children and the children she has borne leave home.
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Regardless of your age, you will always have adventures, unexpected joys and unexpected sorrows.
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I can’t point to any major episodes of sexual discrimination in my early life. But I was so aware of the crime, the shame that there was no use of my mother’s ability and energy.
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Men are not the enemy, but the fellow victims. The real enemy is women’s denigration of themselves.
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You have to say no to the old ways before you can begin to find the new yes you need.
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It is easier to live through someone else than to become complete yourself.
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Why the increasing emphasis by professional age experts and the media on – and public acceptance of – the nursing home as the locus of age when, in fact, more than ninety percent of those over sixty-five continue to live in the community?
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We need a new political movement of women and men toward a new society.
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When she stopped conforming to the conventional picture of femininity she finally began to enjoy being a woman.
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If divorce has increased by one thousand percent, don’t blame the women’s movement. Blame the obsolete sex roles on which our marriages were based.
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…women who ‘adjust’ as housewives, who grow up wanting to be ‘just a housewife,’ are in as much danger as the millions who walked to their own death in the concentration camps…they ate suffering a slow death of mind and spirit.
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Protectiveness has often muffled the sound of doors closing against women.
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