Neither woman nor man lives by work, or love, alone … The human self defines itself and grows through love and work: All psychology before and after Freud boils down to that.
BETTY FRIEDANMen weren’t really the enemy – they were fellow victims suffering from an outmoded masculine mystique that made them feel unnecessarily inadequate when there were no bears to kill.
More Betty Friedan Quotes
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Who knows what women can be when they are finally free to become themselves?
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If I were a man, I would strenuously object to the assumption that women have any moral or spiritual superiority as a class.
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When she stopped conforming to the conventional picture of femininity she finally began to enjoy being a woman.
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The feminist revolution had to be fought because women quite simply were stopped at a state of evolution far short of their human capacity.
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Most of the people in the workforce today will spend some years when they also have children and family responsibilities.
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It is perhaps beside the point to remark that bowling alleys and supermarkets have nursery facilities, while schools and colleges and scientific laboratories and government offices do not.
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life lived only for oneself does not truly satisfy men or women. There is a hunger in Americans today for larger purposes beyond the self. That is the reason for the religious revival and the new resonance of ‘family.
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Men weren’t really the enemy – they were fellow victims suffering from an outmoded masculine mystique that made them feel unnecessarily inadequate when there were no bears to kill.
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Advice? I don’t offer advice. Not my business. Your life is what you make it.
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Whatever I wrote was heretical. It offended the editors of the women’s magazines.
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The only way for a woman, as for a man, to find herself, to know herself as a person, is by creative work of her own.
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Regardless of your age, you will always have adventures, unexpected joys and unexpected sorrows.
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Dominance is a burden. Most men who are honest will admit that.
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This idea that the employment of women, the movement of women outside the home into the work world, and their demand for equality is somehow responsible for increasing juvenile delinquency or the increase in divorce rate, is just so much bullshit.
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By now, abortion should be obsolete. And I – and probably a lot of other feminists – wish it were obsolete, because abortion, in itself, is not a value – it is simply the right to chose, which is an essential value.
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