When one begins to think about it, America depends rather heavily on women’s passive dependence, their femininity. Femininity, if one still wants to call it that, makes American women a target and a victim of the sexual sell.
BETTY FRIEDANlife lived only for oneself does not truly satisfy men or women. There is a hunger in Americans today for larger purposes beyond the self. That is the reason for the religious revival and the new resonance of ‘family.
More Betty Friedan Quotes
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Some people think I’m saying, ‘Women of the world unite — you have nothing to lose but your men. It’s not true. You have nothing to lose but your vacuum cleaners.
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If divorce has increased by one thousand percent, don’t blame the women’s movement. Blame the obsolete sex roles on which our marriages were based.
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Getting older is an adventure, not a problem.
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…women who ‘adjust’ as housewives, who grow up wanting to be ‘just a housewife,’ are in as much danger as the millions who walked to their own death in the concentration camps…they ate suffering a slow death of mind and spirit.
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Protectiveness has often muffled the sound of doors closing against women.
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I wouldn’t be satisfied with a life lived solely on the barricades. I reserve my right to be frivolous.
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I realized that what I was saying was threatening, somehow, to the editors of women’s magazines. That it threatened the very world they were trying to paint, what I then called the “feminine mystique.”
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Who knows what women can be when they are finally free to become themselves? Who knows what women’s intelligence will contribute when it can be nourished without denying love?
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I love newspapers. I’ve worked on newspapers, all my life. I’ve always loved it.
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By now, abortion should be obsolete. And I – and probably a lot of other feminists – wish it were obsolete, because abortion, in itself, is not a value – it is simply the right to chose, which is an essential value.
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The feminist revolution had to be fought because women quite simply were stopped at a state of evolution far short of their human capacity.
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If I were a man, I would strenuously object to the assumption that women have any moral or spiritual superiority as a class.
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Whatever I wrote was heretical. It offended the editors of the women’s magazines.
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[Feminist:] One who believes in the liberation of that which has been suppressed as female in a man.
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When she stopped conforming to the conventional picture of femininity she finally began to enjoy being a woman.
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