Diversity has got to be a part of modern feminism, and I think that my feminism is stronger because its an inclusive thing. I won’t be backed into a corner that polarizes me against other women. And I wished they wouldn’t be either.
BETTY FRIEDANThe feminine mystique has succeeded in burying millions of American women alive.
More Betty Friedan Quotes
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You have to say no to the old ways before you can begin to find the new yes you need.
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I wouldn’t be satisfied with a life lived solely on the barricades. I reserve my right to be frivolous.
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By now, abortion should be obsolete. And I – and probably a lot of other feminists – wish it were obsolete, because abortion, in itself, is not a value – it is simply the right to chose, which is an essential value.
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The feminists had destroyed the old image of woman, but they could not erase the hostility, the prejudice, the discrimination that still remained.
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I’m my age and I feel glorious.
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Aging is not “lost youth” but a new stage of opportunity and strength.
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Men weren’t really the enemy – they were fellow victims suffering from an outmoded masculine mystique that made them feel unnecessarily inadequate when there were no bears to kill.
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The only way for a woman, as for a man, to find herself, to know herself as a person, is by creative work of her own.
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I won a really big fellowship to go straight on to get my Ph.D. And I went through agonies of indecision, and then I decided not to accept it. I just decided I didn’t want to be an academic.
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If I were a man, I would strenuously object to the assumption that women have any moral or spiritual superiority as a class.
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While I had been, I guess, quite brilliant, academically, in my college years, I also had been editor of the paper, and I loved that. And, that was a much more active thing. And I missed it when I was doing graduate work.
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If women’s role in life is limited solely to housewife/mother, it clearly ends when she can no longer bear more children and the children she has borne leave home.
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Whatever I wrote was heretical. It offended the editors of the women’s magazines.
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You can have it all, just not all at the same time.
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Neither woman nor man lives by work, or love, alone … The human self defines itself and grows through love and work: All psychology before and after Freud boils down to that.
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