If you were very bright and you became head of a department, as I did, of the psychology department, you were encouraged to go on to graduate work. But as a women you didn’t even think about discrimination.
BETTY FRIEDANI never set out to write a book to change women’s lives, to change history. It’s like, ‘Who, me?’ Yes, me. I did it. And I’m not that different from other women. Maybe my power and glory was that I could speak my truth as a woman and it was the truth of every woman.
More Betty Friedan Quotes
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If divorce has increased by one thousand percent, don’t blame the women’s movement. Blame the obsolete sex roles on which our marriages were based.
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A girl should not expect special privileges because of her sex, but neither should she “adjust” to prejudice and discrimination.
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A woman has got to be able to say, and not feel guilty, ‘Who am I, and what do I want out of life?’ She mustn’t feel selfish and neurotic if she wants goals of her own, outside of husband and children.
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The feminine mystique has succeeded in burying millions of American women alive.
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Who knows what women can be when they are finally free to become themselves?
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Who knows what women can be when they are finally free to become themselves? Who knows what women’s intelligence will contribute when it can be nourished without denying love?
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To protest free speech in the name of protecting women is dangerous and wrong.
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I can’t point to any major episodes of sexual discrimination in my early life. But I was so aware of the crime, the shame that there was no use of my mother’s ability and energy.
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Regardless of your age, you will always have adventures, unexpected joys and unexpected sorrows.
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I have discovered that there is a crucial difference between society’s image of old people and ‘us’ as we know and feel ourselves to be.
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Men weren’t really the enemy – they were fellow victims suffering from an outmoded masculine mystique that made them feel unnecessarily inadequate when there were no bears to kill.
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You can have it all, just not all at the same time.
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The only way for a woman, as for a man, to find herself, to know herself as a person, is by creative work of her own.
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Men are not the enemy, but the fellow victims. The real enemy is women’s denigration of themselves.
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Advice? I don’t offer advice. Not my business. Your life is what you make it.
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