Marriage is such hard work. And it’s full of rage and real human drama.
BETTE MIDLERA lot of people say that my life is wasted on me because I could be a bigger asshole than I am, but I’ve chosen not to be.
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If you’re frightened, you’re out of luck.
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Culturally, it’s very hard to change people’s attitudes about public space.
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I always try to balance the light with the heavy – a few tears of human spirit in with the sequins and the fringes.
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It’s a different world now: Stars come and go quickly, and there are so many of them. I read a statistic that all the record companies combined used to put out around 3,000 albums in a year. Now they put out something like 30,000!
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When I started in this [music] business, I had a dream, but it was amorphous, and I had no experience. I just had a fuzzy notion of what life would be like if I became what I pictured.
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Do you want to live and work in a garbage dump? I don’t. That’s partly because I grew up in the most pristine environment possible – Hawaii, where it is sacrilege to leave your garbage on the ground.
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I think most of us are torn. We have at least two people at war in our body. One person wants to retire and grow fabulous tomatoes, and the other wants to stand up on a pedestal and be worshipped and get bigger and bigger and bigger until she explodes.
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When I read that, I burst into tears. It was so generous and so basic. Not fluffy. I can’t understand why we scrimp on education and shortchange our kids. Why would the citizenry do that to the people who are going to inherit its republic?
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While I was growing up, I believed I could do anything I could think of. So the challenge was always to keep thinking – to get to where I wanted to be and then to think of somewhere else to go.
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It is true that in this culture, they throw you out when you get older. I see it all the time, especially in my business. At my age, you’re playing somebody’s mother – and there aren’t even a lot of those roles!
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When it’s time to shuffle off this mortal coil, you leave your ashes to be composted.
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My idea of superwoman is someone who scrubs her own floors.
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I would much rather watch myself than listen to myself. The moving is second nature, but the listening… that’s the art.
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I want to have fun, and I want to give people a good laugh.
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I loved the photographs of people wearing elaborate makeup and costumes – they really pulled at me inside. I was in that library every week for years, until I was about 13. I had a rich interior life, because I didn’t have much of a social life.
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