Love is really more of an interactive process. It’s about what we do not just what we feel. It’s a verb, not a noun.
BELL HOOKSI began writing a book on love because I felt that the United States is moving away from love.
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I believe that it is impossible for two individuals not committed to their own and each other’s well being to sustain a healthy and enduring relationship.
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Whenever women struggle with breast cancer and face better care than ever, that’s feminism.
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Love is a combination of care, commitment, knowledge, responsibility, respect and trust.
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If you do not know what you feel, then it is difficult to choose love; it is better to fall. Then you do not have to be responsible for your actions.
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Death is with you all the time; you get deeper in it as you move towards it, but it’s not unfamiliar to you. It’s always been there, so what becomes unfamiliar to you when you pass away from the moment is really life.
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I began writing a book on love because I felt that the United States is moving away from love.
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I will not have my life narrowed down. I will not bow down to somebody else’s whim or to someone else’s ignorance.
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To know love we have to invest time and commitment.
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All our silences in the face of racist assault are acts of complicity.
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No black woman writer in this culture can write “too much”. Indeed, no woman writer can write “too much”. No woman has ever written enough.
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Giving generously in romantic relationships, and in all other bonds, means recognizing when the other person needs our attention. Attention is an important resource.
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Life-transforming ideas have always come to me through books.
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If any female feels she need anything beyond herself to legitimate and validate her existence, she is already giving away her power to be self-defining, her agency.
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There is no life to be found in violence. Every act of violence brings us closer to death.
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Being oppressed means the absence of choices.
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As long as women are using class or race power to dominate other women, feminist sisterhood cannot be fully realized.
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Love is an action, never simply a feeling.
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It’s in the act of having to do things that you don’t want to that you learn something about moving past the self. Past the ego.
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Class is more than money. Class is also about knowledge.
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Living simply makes loving simple.
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When we face pain in relationships our first response is often to sever bonds rather than to maintain commitment.
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The political core of any movement for freedom in the society has to have the political imperative to protect free speech.
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To be truly visionary we have to root our imagination in our concrete reality while simultaneously imagining possibilities beyond that reality.
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Every terrorist regime in the world uses isolation to break people’s spirits.
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Once you do away with the idea of people as fixed, static entities, then you see that people can change, and there is hope.
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The practice of love offers no place of safety. We risk loss, hurt, pain. We risk being acted upon by forces outside our control.
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